5 Fun Foreplay Positions

Star 69

Description: In classic 69 form, you face each other's genitals for a great double oral sex session. In this position, she lies on the bottom and spreads her legs in the air, while you make your way on top of her.

Benefits for you: As in "The dairy cow," you can control all motions and intensity according to what you like. Another rewarding thing about this position is that you have the option of using your fingers if your tongue starts to tire out.

Benefits for her: She gets to lie down -- legs spread-eagle -- and enjoy the ride. Pleasing you is simple through the magic of alignment -- her head rests nicely under your groin area. Also, she has two options when it comes to using her free hands. She can either take the "it's-all-about-me" route and use them to caress herself, or she can take the "selfless" route and use them on you for some extra pleasure.

Wetting your appetite

Foreplay isn't restricted to oral sex alone. Have a good time with other techniques that promote just touching -- this can really help with arousal and build up to some wild sex later. So, try these fun positions to shape up for gettin' down.

Poolside

Description: While she lies on her stomach, you approach her from between her legs. Place a pillow under her stomach to give you easier access to her genitals.

Benefits for you: You're in control here -- use your hands, use just your fingers, use your tongue and your lips. Any way you do it, she's sure to enjoy the pampering.

Benefits for her: One of the great things about this position is the element of surprise -- she can't really see you and has no idea what to expect. The "mystery" factor can lead to an overwhelming heightened sensation as she enjoys you enjoying her.

The electric slide

Description: She leans on her side with one leg bent up and one stretched out; you lie on her outstretched leg, facing away from her. This position is great for caressing and massaging her legs and feet (and for getting yourself a little massage-action too).

Benefits for you: This position is not only a relaxing, easy-going mutual foot massage technique. It leaves your backside exposed for her to caress, making anal stimulation a possibility if you'd like. Also, if you've got yourself a foot fetish, you don't need me to tell you that this is surely the way to go.

Benefits for her: Obviously, this is an ideal way to help her unwind and get into the mood. Hardly anyone can resist the sensuous charms of a relaxing rubdown.

Sealing the deal

Who said positions were only reserved for intercourse? They can also be very helpful before sex too. Try out these moves before doing the deed and see how they can contribute to the fun.

Keep in mind: Great play beforehand will certainly increase your chances of amazing sex afterward.

The Month of May is Masturbation Month

Ah, the month of May. The weather heats up, the clothes come off and society encourages everyone to masturbate themselves silly. You read that right -- May is National Masturbation Month. So take a guilt-free break from trying to win over the girl of your dreams and focus on yourself for a little instead with the knowledge that everyone’s cool with it.

And if you’re brave enough to help destroy the stigma around self-love, you can raise money for sex-awareness groups at events like Philadelphia’s Masturbate-a-thon Fundraiser. Only 29 days left in May. Better get started!