HELL NO.....
Throughout our sexual life we have been told that the only reason to have sex is to either make another human or to have an orgasm. If you fall outside of these guidelines then you should not even have sex because its no fun and useless. I am here to say that is such a bunch of Bull Shit! Sex is way more than making babies or making toes curl. We put a lot of pressure on our partners when it comes to orgasms and it can create dysfunction in our bedroom.
Studies show that about 75% of women have never achieved orgasm though penetration, and as many as 10% have never achieved an orgasm at all. If a woman does orgasm there is no guarantee that she will orgasm every time. So your girl friend is not alone. Also understand that the orgasm is 80% mental. During times of stress or turmoil it will be harder to focus on accepting pleasure. If there is past sexual trauma or negative ideals towards sex from upbringing that will be a big factor to.
Orgasms are a plus but they are not the only thing that makes sex great. Sex is about intimate connection. It’s about two people coming together to make each other feel a deeper level of pleasure and excitement. Take the emphasis off of the experience of the Big O and enjoy the experience of your lover.
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