When you ditch work for the sole purpose of getting laid it can make for awkward next-day conversation at the water cooler. “So, what did you do yesterday?”, they always ask. “I shot a hot load of cum deep into my wife’s ass”, I’d like to say before taking another sip of water and watching their eyes react.
Actually, that would only tell part of the story… and it’s not really fair to cut out the true context of Sue’s and my day off together. We’re a couple months into an upswing, enjoying a closeness and fondness for each other that goes missing sometimes. Long term relationships can be like that, going through cycles where the intimacy gap waxes and wanes in a slow rhythm beneath the melody of lives intertwined. Sometimes Sue’s love is so strong that she even looks past my mixed metaphors.
Our day to day responsibilities leave little room for spontaneity so we try to push the clutter aside and plan quality (i.e. sexy) time together. She took the kids to school while I lit a fire, dusted off the massage table, and warmed up the coconut oil. The anticipation hardwired into such prep work is enough to make a soft man hard.
I spent the next hour hungrily touching every inch of her; every muscle, every freckle, every fold. We were in constant intimate contact in peaceful surroundings, our world of other obligations melted and evaporated into nothing. It was just us. Together and in love like the day we married, naked and in tune with each others’ every breath. Massage is a wonderful gift of sharing and we recommend it highly.
We showered together, I helped her soap the excess oil from places hard to reach and places fun to touch. We dried our bodies, brushed our hair, got ourselves ready for the day… and then went back to bed. The details, which messed up our bed so badly, do not need to be mentioned but I will say Sue has talents only I really know about. Wowza!
Back at the water cooler… I want to explain that Sue’s ass was completely irresistible because she surprised me with a jeweled butt plug much like this one. She ordered it, received it, and inserted it without my catching on. I discovered it peeking out between her cheeks like she was Queen of the Assholes. I kneeled, I kissed, and then I took the Queen’s precious jewel and fucked her real good.
I’d love to imagine what goes through my co-workers jealous little heads when I leave for a week.
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Friday, November 8, 2013
How to Make Her Cum.
Here are some fab tips and tricks for you, from me, about what the ladies want / expect / wish / demand / lust / desire.... when it comes to foreplay in the bedroom (wherever your actively fucking):
1. The massage. I put this at the very top of the list, because it is my truly, absolutely, most favorite part of the whole escapade. Massages can be so hot, sexy, romantic, sensual, and just a plain turn on! I genuinely would bang a female massage therapist that I’m not psychically attracted to, just because she gives a good massage. Seriously. And by “bang,” I mean she could even go down on me. I just love massages, and want to express to my Bro’s how a simple massage could turn into the best sex of your life. A tip: remember her upper thighs... those are the best parts!
2. Kissing! I love kissing – fresh breath and tongue, on my neck and all over my body – kissing is the perfect lead-in to feeling up and down her body. Getting her wet, with your cock hard, and teasing the fuck out of each other…so HOT. Just remember: fresh breath is ALWAYS appreciated.
3. Setting the mood. Ultimately, any place you want to fuck can probably be accommodated, aside from the really illegal places... and any place can be set up to be a real sexy area, but the trick for me is in the pre-planning. Everything in life is smoother with a game plan, right? The other day, I cleared my hotel furniture and attempted to fuck on the windowsill. It could have backfired, but the attempt is what counted, and planning helped a lot before we even got started! So – try to make the location of the sex fun, frisky, and hot. Use candles and lighting, scents and music, decor or none at all – just think about how the place makes you feel, and how it will make her feel, and increase it with your senses so the kind of sex you have is inspired by the mood you’ve set.
4. Conversation. Sounds so simple, but a great interaction with someone, a real intellectual talk, even a spiritual one, or even a fun and playful banter, can change the way I see an individual. Try to not be too full of yourself – and make sure to ask her lots of questions about herself. People love to talk about themselves, don’t you? Having a hard time breaking the ice? Knowing a little about what’s going on in the world, or in pop culture, or having common likes and dislikes, can really help to spark interest.
5. Titty play. Boobs can be ultra sensitive; I know mine are! Lots of attention to my tits is always appreciated, and makes a woman feel really sexually desired, so make sure to touch them and caress them, suck them, and lick them – and of course if foreplay goes accordingly... TITTY FUCK them! Of course, tread carefully – some girls get annoyed if they’re not turned on before titty play, so if she seems like that kind of girl, maybe start with something else to get her warmed up before attacking the tits.
6. Butt play. It’s not for the weak of heart. I’m only kidding in my case – that’s totally a turn on to me, and I don't mean just anal sex. I mean you can softly or roughly grab my ass, kiss it, lick it, and anally rim it. I love a man to want to eat my ass out, with his tongue deep inside me. Is that too much info?
7. Play with that clitoris. Start just over the top of, twirl it around, and listen to her moans to see what she's into. Make sure you’re not going too hard, by asking her how she likes it. Kiss her when you’re playing with her clit, and look into her eyes, and touch her neck with your mouth. This can all lead to an orgasm, with absolutely no sex…and she’ll thank you for it!
8. Finger that pussy. All this action has got her soaking wet by now – at least mine would be. So slip your clean fingers deep inside of her, and bang her, nice and slow, and then speed it up. Make sure she is okay with this – you can move up to 2 fingers or more, which can be really fun as well.
9. Spanking. My personal fetish can get a certain type of woman in the mood to play dirty, and I mean real dirty. Make sure you test it out first though – start softly, and see if she's into it. If she’s not into it, do not continue. But more than likely she is, and you should absolutely try to “punish” her to the extent that she is comfortable. This is about turning HER on, not hurting her! :)
10. Pussy licking. My personal favorite and most important part! If she’s nervous, keep working at it to convince her to love it. If she's going to have sex with you, how could she not, right? Some girls are very insecure about their girl parts, and need a little extra confidence about how good they taste, and smell, and feel. Get your tongue and face up in there, and be the man I know you are – eat her out properly!
11. Make her cum.
1. The massage. I put this at the very top of the list, because it is my truly, absolutely, most favorite part of the whole escapade. Massages can be so hot, sexy, romantic, sensual, and just a plain turn on! I genuinely would bang a female massage therapist that I’m not psychically attracted to, just because she gives a good massage. Seriously. And by “bang,” I mean she could even go down on me. I just love massages, and want to express to my Bro’s how a simple massage could turn into the best sex of your life. A tip: remember her upper thighs... those are the best parts!
2. Kissing! I love kissing – fresh breath and tongue, on my neck and all over my body – kissing is the perfect lead-in to feeling up and down her body. Getting her wet, with your cock hard, and teasing the fuck out of each other…so HOT. Just remember: fresh breath is ALWAYS appreciated.
3. Setting the mood. Ultimately, any place you want to fuck can probably be accommodated, aside from the really illegal places... and any place can be set up to be a real sexy area, but the trick for me is in the pre-planning. Everything in life is smoother with a game plan, right? The other day, I cleared my hotel furniture and attempted to fuck on the windowsill. It could have backfired, but the attempt is what counted, and planning helped a lot before we even got started! So – try to make the location of the sex fun, frisky, and hot. Use candles and lighting, scents and music, decor or none at all – just think about how the place makes you feel, and how it will make her feel, and increase it with your senses so the kind of sex you have is inspired by the mood you’ve set.
4. Conversation. Sounds so simple, but a great interaction with someone, a real intellectual talk, even a spiritual one, or even a fun and playful banter, can change the way I see an individual. Try to not be too full of yourself – and make sure to ask her lots of questions about herself. People love to talk about themselves, don’t you? Having a hard time breaking the ice? Knowing a little about what’s going on in the world, or in pop culture, or having common likes and dislikes, can really help to spark interest.
5. Titty play. Boobs can be ultra sensitive; I know mine are! Lots of attention to my tits is always appreciated, and makes a woman feel really sexually desired, so make sure to touch them and caress them, suck them, and lick them – and of course if foreplay goes accordingly... TITTY FUCK them! Of course, tread carefully – some girls get annoyed if they’re not turned on before titty play, so if she seems like that kind of girl, maybe start with something else to get her warmed up before attacking the tits.
6. Butt play. It’s not for the weak of heart. I’m only kidding in my case – that’s totally a turn on to me, and I don't mean just anal sex. I mean you can softly or roughly grab my ass, kiss it, lick it, and anally rim it. I love a man to want to eat my ass out, with his tongue deep inside me. Is that too much info?
7. Play with that clitoris. Start just over the top of, twirl it around, and listen to her moans to see what she's into. Make sure you’re not going too hard, by asking her how she likes it. Kiss her when you’re playing with her clit, and look into her eyes, and touch her neck with your mouth. This can all lead to an orgasm, with absolutely no sex…and she’ll thank you for it!
8. Finger that pussy. All this action has got her soaking wet by now – at least mine would be. So slip your clean fingers deep inside of her, and bang her, nice and slow, and then speed it up. Make sure she is okay with this – you can move up to 2 fingers or more, which can be really fun as well.
9. Spanking. My personal fetish can get a certain type of woman in the mood to play dirty, and I mean real dirty. Make sure you test it out first though – start softly, and see if she's into it. If she’s not into it, do not continue. But more than likely she is, and you should absolutely try to “punish” her to the extent that she is comfortable. This is about turning HER on, not hurting her! :)
10. Pussy licking. My personal favorite and most important part! If she’s nervous, keep working at it to convince her to love it. If she's going to have sex with you, how could she not, right? Some girls are very insecure about their girl parts, and need a little extra confidence about how good they taste, and smell, and feel. Get your tongue and face up in there, and be the man I know you are – eat her out properly!
11. Make her cum.
Friday, October 18, 2013
Sex With Blindfolds
Blindfolds for Beginners
A blindfold can increase sexual tension and magnify arousal; because when one your senses is lost all of the other senses become heightened to compensate. There is more to sex with blindfolds than you might imagine, so read on to find out how you can use these sexual aids to spice up your relationship.
Food Foreplay
The use of blindfolds doesn’t have to be overtly sexual, so if you are trying to persuade a partner to step outside of your love-making routine, a good place to start is outside of the bedroom. Blindfold her, or have her blindfold you and surprise each other’s taste buds with all kinds of yummy treats; like strawberries, honey or chocolate. Just avoid the temptation to slip something nasty in her mouth, like a chilli, if you want the fun to carry on in the bedroom afterwards.
Blindfolds in the Bedroom
Once you have built up a level of trust you can move the fun and games into the bedroom. If your partner is wearing the blindfold; undress her and then begin caressing her hands, toes, legs, back, stomach, face, neck, breasts and genitals. Experiment with the pressure of your touch and tease your partner by pausing before touching her again in an unexpected place – moving from one part of her body to another. Allow you lips to trace the lines of her body, kissing and licking as you move down towards her vagina. This is an intense form of foreplay, because she can't see what you're doing, which makes her anticipation that much more powerful.
She doesn’t have to be a passive partner, why not let her explore your body, smell the scent of your body or taste the flavour on your skin. This will allow her to focus all of her other senses. Or if you would prefer to be the submissive partner then reverse the roles and let her tie the blindfold on you. Then prepare to experience amazing sensations – when you can’t see what she is doing the feel of her hands or mouth on your skin is magnified two-fold and can be mind-blowing.
Inhibitions tend to diminish somewhat when people wear blindfolds and that is especially true for the unmasked partner, because they know that their facial expressions, movements or the parts of their body that they are self-conscious about can’t be seen. So to try something even more adventurous or liberating, why not both wear blindfolds?
Handy Household Items
Experimentation with blindfolds can be relatively spontaneous. You don’t have to plan it out in advance or buy a special blindfold. Instead, you can use things that you already have around the house like your ties, her scarves or anything else that can cover your eyes adequately.
A simple blindfold can result in an amazing level of arousal, so find that tie or scarf and enjoy!
A blindfold can increase sexual tension and magnify arousal; because when one your senses is lost all of the other senses become heightened to compensate. There is more to sex with blindfolds than you might imagine, so read on to find out how you can use these sexual aids to spice up your relationship.
Food Foreplay
The use of blindfolds doesn’t have to be overtly sexual, so if you are trying to persuade a partner to step outside of your love-making routine, a good place to start is outside of the bedroom. Blindfold her, or have her blindfold you and surprise each other’s taste buds with all kinds of yummy treats; like strawberries, honey or chocolate. Just avoid the temptation to slip something nasty in her mouth, like a chilli, if you want the fun to carry on in the bedroom afterwards.
Blindfolds in the Bedroom
Once you have built up a level of trust you can move the fun and games into the bedroom. If your partner is wearing the blindfold; undress her and then begin caressing her hands, toes, legs, back, stomach, face, neck, breasts and genitals. Experiment with the pressure of your touch and tease your partner by pausing before touching her again in an unexpected place – moving from one part of her body to another. Allow you lips to trace the lines of her body, kissing and licking as you move down towards her vagina. This is an intense form of foreplay, because she can't see what you're doing, which makes her anticipation that much more powerful.
She doesn’t have to be a passive partner, why not let her explore your body, smell the scent of your body or taste the flavour on your skin. This will allow her to focus all of her other senses. Or if you would prefer to be the submissive partner then reverse the roles and let her tie the blindfold on you. Then prepare to experience amazing sensations – when you can’t see what she is doing the feel of her hands or mouth on your skin is magnified two-fold and can be mind-blowing.
Inhibitions tend to diminish somewhat when people wear blindfolds and that is especially true for the unmasked partner, because they know that their facial expressions, movements or the parts of their body that they are self-conscious about can’t be seen. So to try something even more adventurous or liberating, why not both wear blindfolds?
Handy Household Items
Experimentation with blindfolds can be relatively spontaneous. You don’t have to plan it out in advance or buy a special blindfold. Instead, you can use things that you already have around the house like your ties, her scarves or anything else that can cover your eyes adequately.
A simple blindfold can result in an amazing level of arousal, so find that tie or scarf and enjoy!
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Online Dating
The concept of online dating can be considered daunting for some, especially if it is your first foray into the world of finding a date online! There are countless success stories as well as those who simply did not manage to find someone compatible! If you look into the facts about online dating you can easily use these to your advantage to create a profile which will help you get the most out of your experience and help you meet your dream partner and perhaps make some new friends along the way!
The first step you need to take is actually joining a dating site and this maybe where a lot of your success lies. There are countless generic dating sites which are open to people of all interests, backgrounds, jobs and ages and these tend to have the most members to contact. In addition to this there are niche specific dating sites which are only open to a small selection of individuals, this could be by job, age, particular interest and so on, where in some cases although the number of members will be limited you may find it easier to connect with someone. Increasingly there are dating sites which require you to do a personality test and the results of which will match you with someone whose answers are said to be compatible to yours. After choosing the type you then have the option of free or paid dating sites, once again this is down to personal preference.
If you are happy to join one of the paid dating sites I would recommend you looking for coupons, discounts and special offers, you may be able to save some money on your subscription.
Your profile creation will be the most important part of joining, this is the first impression that everyone will see and what will result in opinions being formed. The most important thing to consider at this point is to always be yourself. Although you may find this is a great opportunity to ‘reinvent’ yourself online if your internet persona does not carry through into your real life persona then you will quickly find you will be meeting people who think you are someone you really aren’t resulting in potential incompatibilities, failed dates and wasted time.
To find someone who suits you perfectly fill in as much of the information as required and although you may find some of your interests quirky and prefer to hide them, having them on your profile will give you the opportunity to meet someone else with a shared interest.
When it comes to photographs it is essential that you have at least one, although it is not a requirement to join you will find that profiles without photographs tend to be completely overlooked.
Take time to properly complete your profile, the more information there is with a picture, headline and so on the more people will have to go off.
Don’t be afraid to make the first move, if you like someone’s profile send them a message, don’t go for something generic! Try and connect with what interested you about the particular profile in the first place, perhaps a shared interest or maybe you have both travelled to the same country? Whatever it is, mention it, it can be a great starting point.
When you have found someone you would like to meet arrange a date in a public place, don’t invite them back to your home and don’t go to theirs. Ensure you are safe at all times which is easily done if you are in a public place and follow safety principles.
The first step you need to take is actually joining a dating site and this maybe where a lot of your success lies. There are countless generic dating sites which are open to people of all interests, backgrounds, jobs and ages and these tend to have the most members to contact. In addition to this there are niche specific dating sites which are only open to a small selection of individuals, this could be by job, age, particular interest and so on, where in some cases although the number of members will be limited you may find it easier to connect with someone. Increasingly there are dating sites which require you to do a personality test and the results of which will match you with someone whose answers are said to be compatible to yours. After choosing the type you then have the option of free or paid dating sites, once again this is down to personal preference.
If you are happy to join one of the paid dating sites I would recommend you looking for coupons, discounts and special offers, you may be able to save some money on your subscription.
Your profile creation will be the most important part of joining, this is the first impression that everyone will see and what will result in opinions being formed. The most important thing to consider at this point is to always be yourself. Although you may find this is a great opportunity to ‘reinvent’ yourself online if your internet persona does not carry through into your real life persona then you will quickly find you will be meeting people who think you are someone you really aren’t resulting in potential incompatibilities, failed dates and wasted time.
To find someone who suits you perfectly fill in as much of the information as required and although you may find some of your interests quirky and prefer to hide them, having them on your profile will give you the opportunity to meet someone else with a shared interest.
When it comes to photographs it is essential that you have at least one, although it is not a requirement to join you will find that profiles without photographs tend to be completely overlooked.
Take time to properly complete your profile, the more information there is with a picture, headline and so on the more people will have to go off.
Don’t be afraid to make the first move, if you like someone’s profile send them a message, don’t go for something generic! Try and connect with what interested you about the particular profile in the first place, perhaps a shared interest or maybe you have both travelled to the same country? Whatever it is, mention it, it can be a great starting point.
When you have found someone you would like to meet arrange a date in a public place, don’t invite them back to your home and don’t go to theirs. Ensure you are safe at all times which is easily done if you are in a public place and follow safety principles.
Friday, August 9, 2013
How to Get Naked
1. Be Proud Of That Belly
"If you're already undressing, you've made it that far, but now is the big moment. Don't suck in your gut. Be confident -- what you have is what you have, and it's all going to be revealed in time, right? So just go with it and feel good about yourself."
2. You're Not Magic Mike
"Don't do any swinging around. I don't think that's a good idea. You're not in the Chippendales. Maybe I would say a cute little hip swing or something -- that's adorable, that could be cute. Maybe a little bit of a dance move, but no swinging around!"
3. Keep The Playlist Chill
"No putting on music, 'cause then you'll feel like you need to dance and perform [unless] it's something...in the background, setting the mood. Nothing like 'I Believe in Miracles.' We want to stay away from the '80s. No 'It's Raining Men.'"
4. Shirt Goes First
"I would say don't just leave your shirt on. Probably start with taking off the shirt."
5. Socks Go Last
"I think that's actually very cute. I do. Because you're confident enough to leave your socks on 'til the end, and that's the greatest reveal. The socks come off, and then you're fully nude!"
"If you're already undressing, you've made it that far, but now is the big moment. Don't suck in your gut. Be confident -- what you have is what you have, and it's all going to be revealed in time, right? So just go with it and feel good about yourself."
2. You're Not Magic Mike
"Don't do any swinging around. I don't think that's a good idea. You're not in the Chippendales. Maybe I would say a cute little hip swing or something -- that's adorable, that could be cute. Maybe a little bit of a dance move, but no swinging around!"
3. Keep The Playlist Chill
"No putting on music, 'cause then you'll feel like you need to dance and perform [unless] it's something...in the background, setting the mood. Nothing like 'I Believe in Miracles.' We want to stay away from the '80s. No 'It's Raining Men.'"
4. Shirt Goes First
"I would say don't just leave your shirt on. Probably start with taking off the shirt."
5. Socks Go Last
"I think that's actually very cute. I do. Because you're confident enough to leave your socks on 'til the end, and that's the greatest reveal. The socks come off, and then you're fully nude!"
Monday, July 8, 2013
The Naked Hug
We practice an astonishingly simple strategy to maintain an intimate connection amid the challenges and distractions of the lives we lead together and apart. Naked hugs.
Simple, intuitive, obvious even, but far too many of us overlook the most basic solutions to our greatest needs. To love, to feel love, and to feel the support of an intimately connected partner is a foundation upon which a rich and rewarding life can be built.
Skin (our largest organ) gives us an invaluable communications tool which transcends language and has the ability to affect our very chemistry; lowering stress levels and raising feel good hormones like Oxytocin. This is not just true for lovers.
“The conversation between your fingers and someone else’s skin. This is the most important discussion you can ever have.” — Iain Thomas
Adopting the classic American ideology of "more is better", I suggest that the regular hugs you're already giving might be cranked up a few notches in potency if you were both naked. That you should strip down together and go toe to toe, that she should bare her breasts and press them against you because science says it's for the greater good. And it works.
You now have a daily commitment to linger naked in each other's arms, no matter what, and it's how you end each day (usually in bed). Your touch speaks for you... it expresses vulnerability and trust, love and lust, our history and futures together. It is paradoxically both grounding and elevating and weaves you back together.
As the proud owner of a "Y" chromosome, when she wraps her naked body around your largest organ is a pretty effective sexual trigger. Well... maybe I give my chromosome too much credit because she gets worked up by all the skin-on-skin too. Sex is more frequent (and better) on the naked-hug-a-day plan.
If you try this at home, and you should, keep in mind that sex should never be the goal. It is important to give yourself over fully to the embrace, to feel every inch of skin touching you and to pour love out through your every pore. I believe this is the essence of what we seek in sex anyway, before the genitals interrupt with their very important needs.
Setting aside a few moments each day to touch each other is simple and practical. It doesn't take practiced communication skills, negotiation, or reflective listening (all important in their own way). Instead, it leverages your own collective biology to reduce stress, defuse conflict, and reinforce long held priorities. It's free, readily available, and can lead to better, more frequent sex.
The Naked Hug is a no brainer.
Simple, intuitive, obvious even, but far too many of us overlook the most basic solutions to our greatest needs. To love, to feel love, and to feel the support of an intimately connected partner is a foundation upon which a rich and rewarding life can be built.
Skin (our largest organ) gives us an invaluable communications tool which transcends language and has the ability to affect our very chemistry; lowering stress levels and raising feel good hormones like Oxytocin. This is not just true for lovers.
“The conversation between your fingers and someone else’s skin. This is the most important discussion you can ever have.” — Iain Thomas
Adopting the classic American ideology of "more is better", I suggest that the regular hugs you're already giving might be cranked up a few notches in potency if you were both naked. That you should strip down together and go toe to toe, that she should bare her breasts and press them against you because science says it's for the greater good. And it works.
You now have a daily commitment to linger naked in each other's arms, no matter what, and it's how you end each day (usually in bed). Your touch speaks for you... it expresses vulnerability and trust, love and lust, our history and futures together. It is paradoxically both grounding and elevating and weaves you back together.
As the proud owner of a "Y" chromosome, when she wraps her naked body around your largest organ is a pretty effective sexual trigger. Well... maybe I give my chromosome too much credit because she gets worked up by all the skin-on-skin too. Sex is more frequent (and better) on the naked-hug-a-day plan.
If you try this at home, and you should, keep in mind that sex should never be the goal. It is important to give yourself over fully to the embrace, to feel every inch of skin touching you and to pour love out through your every pore. I believe this is the essence of what we seek in sex anyway, before the genitals interrupt with their very important needs.
Setting aside a few moments each day to touch each other is simple and practical. It doesn't take practiced communication skills, negotiation, or reflective listening (all important in their own way). Instead, it leverages your own collective biology to reduce stress, defuse conflict, and reinforce long held priorities. It's free, readily available, and can lead to better, more frequent sex.
The Naked Hug is a no brainer.
Friday, May 31, 2013
5 Fun Foreplay Positions
Star 69
Description: In classic 69 form, you face each other's genitals for a great double oral sex session. In this position, she lies on the bottom and spreads her legs in the air, while you make your way on top of her.
Benefits for you: As in "The dairy cow," you can control all motions and intensity according to what you like. Another rewarding thing about this position is that you have the option of using your fingers if your tongue starts to tire out.
Benefits for her: She gets to lie down -- legs spread-eagle -- and enjoy the ride. Pleasing you is simple through the magic of alignment -- her head rests nicely under your groin area. Also, she has two options when it comes to using her free hands. She can either take the "it's-all-about-me" route and use them to caress herself, or she can take the "selfless" route and use them on you for some extra pleasure.
Wetting your appetite
Foreplay isn't restricted to oral sex alone. Have a good time with other techniques that promote just touching -- this can really help with arousal and build up to some wild sex later. So, try these fun positions to shape up for gettin' down.
Poolside
Description: While she lies on her stomach, you approach her from between her legs. Place a pillow under her stomach to give you easier access to her genitals.
Benefits for you: You're in control here -- use your hands, use just your fingers, use your tongue and your lips. Any way you do it, she's sure to enjoy the pampering.
Benefits for her: One of the great things about this position is the element of surprise -- she can't really see you and has no idea what to expect. The "mystery" factor can lead to an overwhelming heightened sensation as she enjoys you enjoying her.
The electric slide
Description: She leans on her side with one leg bent up and one stretched out; you lie on her outstretched leg, facing away from her. This position is great for caressing and massaging her legs and feet (and for getting yourself a little massage-action too).
Benefits for you: This position is not only a relaxing, easy-going mutual foot massage technique. It leaves your backside exposed for her to caress, making anal stimulation a possibility if you'd like. Also, if you've got yourself a foot fetish, you don't need me to tell you that this is surely the way to go.
Benefits for her: Obviously, this is an ideal way to help her unwind and get into the mood. Hardly anyone can resist the sensuous charms of a relaxing rubdown.
Sealing the deal
Who said positions were only reserved for intercourse? They can also be very helpful before sex too. Try out these moves before doing the deed and see how they can contribute to the fun.
Keep in mind: Great play beforehand will certainly increase your chances of amazing sex afterward.
Description: In classic 69 form, you face each other's genitals for a great double oral sex session. In this position, she lies on the bottom and spreads her legs in the air, while you make your way on top of her.
Benefits for you: As in "The dairy cow," you can control all motions and intensity according to what you like. Another rewarding thing about this position is that you have the option of using your fingers if your tongue starts to tire out.
Benefits for her: She gets to lie down -- legs spread-eagle -- and enjoy the ride. Pleasing you is simple through the magic of alignment -- her head rests nicely under your groin area. Also, she has two options when it comes to using her free hands. She can either take the "it's-all-about-me" route and use them to caress herself, or she can take the "selfless" route and use them on you for some extra pleasure.
Wetting your appetite
Foreplay isn't restricted to oral sex alone. Have a good time with other techniques that promote just touching -- this can really help with arousal and build up to some wild sex later. So, try these fun positions to shape up for gettin' down.
Poolside
Description: While she lies on her stomach, you approach her from between her legs. Place a pillow under her stomach to give you easier access to her genitals.
Benefits for you: You're in control here -- use your hands, use just your fingers, use your tongue and your lips. Any way you do it, she's sure to enjoy the pampering.
Benefits for her: One of the great things about this position is the element of surprise -- she can't really see you and has no idea what to expect. The "mystery" factor can lead to an overwhelming heightened sensation as she enjoys you enjoying her.
The electric slide
Description: She leans on her side with one leg bent up and one stretched out; you lie on her outstretched leg, facing away from her. This position is great for caressing and massaging her legs and feet (and for getting yourself a little massage-action too).
Benefits for you: This position is not only a relaxing, easy-going mutual foot massage technique. It leaves your backside exposed for her to caress, making anal stimulation a possibility if you'd like. Also, if you've got yourself a foot fetish, you don't need me to tell you that this is surely the way to go.
Benefits for her: Obviously, this is an ideal way to help her unwind and get into the mood. Hardly anyone can resist the sensuous charms of a relaxing rubdown.
Sealing the deal
Who said positions were only reserved for intercourse? They can also be very helpful before sex too. Try out these moves before doing the deed and see how they can contribute to the fun.
Keep in mind: Great play beforehand will certainly increase your chances of amazing sex afterward.
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