Wednesday, May 21, 2014
27 things Men do in Bed that Women don't Like
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Monday, March 10, 2014
The Pleasures of Giving Oral Sex
Receiving oral sex is great for many reasons which need no explanation, but what about giving oral sex? Can a person find pleasure in performing an act which, on the surface, appears to be so one sided? Yes, of course. But perhaps it is not entirely for the altruistic reasons you suspect. Let me back up to get a running start at this.
You’ve Got A Lot Of Nerve
The head of a woman’s clitoris (just the visible part) is packed with 8000 sensory nerve endings (interestingly, that’s about twice the number in an entire penis) and, when it is stimulated, every one of those nerves sends signals to the brain in unison where they get processed by her Pleasure Center and activate a feedback loop which makes her desire more of the same (I’m not making this up). Blood flow increases to the area to keep the hard working nerve cells supplied with oxygen and energy so they can continue their rapid fire bombardment of her increasingly aroused brain. This goes on until the stimulation becomes overwhelming, areas of the brain in charge of reason and behavioral control flicker off, and voilà… orgasm.
While I am certain I just oversimplified a very complex physiology, it seems to me that the volume of [sensory] neural network traffic sent brainward is directly correlated with a person’s perception of physical pleasure. Like, the more nerve signals terminating in, and electrifying, the brain the greater the reward. In the example above, her nerve packed clitoris would be like an exposed electrical terminal on a heavy gauge cable run straight through her body and grounded in her head. It’s a powerful up-link directly to her Pleasure Center with the potential to light it up.
There are other parts of the body which are highly innervated as well and, interestingly, many are associated with sexual pleasure and/or arousal; lips, tongue, ear lobes, finger tips, nipples, anus, and genitals among others. Each one capable of pleasurable sensation on its own. Combine simultaneous stimulation of two or three and what happens? Greater pleasure. The more sensory stimulation in, the better the ride. Read that last sentence again and let it sink in.
Come To Your Senses
If you are a normal, healthy human you have five senses; touch, taste, smell, hearing, and vision. From the neck down you have only one of these… touch. Above that you have all five! On top of that neck of yours, you carry around a sensory powerhouse capable of processing the world around you with 500% more clarity than the rest of you. There is great variety in the sensory information your face can send to your brain. Can these senses produce pleasure? Of course! You enjoy the taste of many foods, smells that trigger memory or emotion, and lighting or visual cues which can calm or excite. Each floods the brain with stimulation and involving these senses directly in sexual play (getting your face right in there) can elicit feelings of pleasure.
Soak It All In
Additionally, your sinuses and mouth are lined with thin tissue permeable to hormones in your partners sexual juices and pheromones in their excited scent. These go straight to your blood and quickly find receptors capable of putting them to work affecting your state of mind. You are the chemistry of your body and sexual contact facilitates an intermingling capable of orchestrating incredible convergence of bodies and minds. If you’ve ever had really great sex then you are probably familiar with this synergy.
Not A Selfless Act
Personally, I get great pleasure from burying my face between Jane’s legs. Her obvious arousal is a real turn on but I am convinced there is more to it than just that. I taste, I smell, I see, my lips and tongue feel as I trace lines through her folds and kiss her sensitive clit. I drink her in, both figuratively and literally, I get drunk on her lust and satisfaction from her orgasm. It’s a sexual experience I crave like many others, I desire it because it brings me pleasure. It’s not selfless.
You’ve Got A Lot Of Nerve
The head of a woman’s clitoris (just the visible part) is packed with 8000 sensory nerve endings (interestingly, that’s about twice the number in an entire penis) and, when it is stimulated, every one of those nerves sends signals to the brain in unison where they get processed by her Pleasure Center and activate a feedback loop which makes her desire more of the same (I’m not making this up). Blood flow increases to the area to keep the hard working nerve cells supplied with oxygen and energy so they can continue their rapid fire bombardment of her increasingly aroused brain. This goes on until the stimulation becomes overwhelming, areas of the brain in charge of reason and behavioral control flicker off, and voilà… orgasm.
While I am certain I just oversimplified a very complex physiology, it seems to me that the volume of [sensory] neural network traffic sent brainward is directly correlated with a person’s perception of physical pleasure. Like, the more nerve signals terminating in, and electrifying, the brain the greater the reward. In the example above, her nerve packed clitoris would be like an exposed electrical terminal on a heavy gauge cable run straight through her body and grounded in her head. It’s a powerful up-link directly to her Pleasure Center with the potential to light it up.
There are other parts of the body which are highly innervated as well and, interestingly, many are associated with sexual pleasure and/or arousal; lips, tongue, ear lobes, finger tips, nipples, anus, and genitals among others. Each one capable of pleasurable sensation on its own. Combine simultaneous stimulation of two or three and what happens? Greater pleasure. The more sensory stimulation in, the better the ride. Read that last sentence again and let it sink in.
Come To Your Senses
If you are a normal, healthy human you have five senses; touch, taste, smell, hearing, and vision. From the neck down you have only one of these… touch. Above that you have all five! On top of that neck of yours, you carry around a sensory powerhouse capable of processing the world around you with 500% more clarity than the rest of you. There is great variety in the sensory information your face can send to your brain. Can these senses produce pleasure? Of course! You enjoy the taste of many foods, smells that trigger memory or emotion, and lighting or visual cues which can calm or excite. Each floods the brain with stimulation and involving these senses directly in sexual play (getting your face right in there) can elicit feelings of pleasure.
Soak It All In
Additionally, your sinuses and mouth are lined with thin tissue permeable to hormones in your partners sexual juices and pheromones in their excited scent. These go straight to your blood and quickly find receptors capable of putting them to work affecting your state of mind. You are the chemistry of your body and sexual contact facilitates an intermingling capable of orchestrating incredible convergence of bodies and minds. If you’ve ever had really great sex then you are probably familiar with this synergy.
Not A Selfless Act
Personally, I get great pleasure from burying my face between Jane’s legs. Her obvious arousal is a real turn on but I am convinced there is more to it than just that. I taste, I smell, I see, my lips and tongue feel as I trace lines through her folds and kiss her sensitive clit. I drink her in, both figuratively and literally, I get drunk on her lust and satisfaction from her orgasm. It’s a sexual experience I crave like many others, I desire it because it brings me pleasure. It’s not selfless.
Wednesday, February 26, 2014
Three Modern Sex Myths You Shouldn't Believe
There are a lot of myths and ‘rules’ floating about out there – and an awful lot of the ones relating to sex are directed at women.
Quite frankly, most are false or misleading. Like the one that says....
MYTH 1: You should never sleep with someone from work
Two-thirds of us meet our life partners through friends or at work – why should you be any different?
Take refuge in the fact it’s not even your fault!
New studies show close proximity breeds lust. Repeated exposure to practically any stimulus makes us like it more (the only time it doesn’t hold true is when our initial reaction to something is negative).
When we spend a lot of time with someone, our brain releases attachment hormones, which make us want to hang around pretty much permanently.
This actually isn’t a bad thing.
Couples who meet through work have a much clearer idea of what they’re getting themselves into.
After all, you’ve seen your partner react to all sorts of stressful situations during your average working day.
As for employer’s fears, most are unfounded: what better way to get employees to turn up early, stay late, look fantastic, willingly sign up for all extra curricular activities and generally beam their way through the working day?
And even if the affair ends, most flirtations fizzle out with remarkably unspectacular endings, as opposed to the fury of resignations or ruined relations people worry about.
MYTH 2: You should always tell the truth about your past
Around the time you both start getting gooey about each other, questions start being asked: ‘So… who else have you lived with/been out with/been in love with?’.
If you read the subtitles they clearly say ‘How many have you slept with?’
This is a danger zone for both sexes but particularly for women.
Even if you’ve managed to hook up with the world’s most liberated man, few can resist a knee-jerk reaction to an answer of ten or over, mainly because they haven’t thought it through.
So is it any wonder you found yourself muttering, ‘three’, and are now panicking about being caught out.
Here's why you shouldn’t feel bad about not really having had three.
A typical 30-year-old attractive woman has usually been sexually active since 16, had two long-term monogamous relationships each lasting around four years, clocked up two short-term relationships per year the rest of the time and had the odd casual fling.
That’s around 20 partners, by my estimate, or 25-30 if you’re dealing with a high libido or increased opportunity.
What he's really asking when he asks the ‘How many?’ question is ‘How special am I? Do you behave like this with everyone?’.
If he’s serious about you, he’s actually far more interested in what’s happened to your heart than your parts, so won’t be obsessed with doing the maths.
If he does start doing sums and you are discovered, appeal to his sense of logic.
Confronted with the above breakdown and other facts (like the number of lovers for both men and women is roughly the same these days, although because of the double standard men consistently report three times more) most men will see reason.
MYTH 3: You should never have sex on a first date
For 20somethings, this is an archaic question.
For over 30s, it’s still something that’s hotly contested.
I can list at least four couples without even blinking (let alone thinking) who had sex on the first date and are still happily together five to ten years later.
If you’re old enough, wise enough and have pretty decent people reading skills, who’s to say you can’t sum someone up during an average five hour date, at least enough to know they’re worth taking a risk on.
Sometimes you just know and some first dates can be so good, they backfire if you stop the flow.
Then there’s the pertinent question of what constitutes a first date?
If you’ve been friends for a while and then finally go out, are you on date one or date ten?
I know I’m being slightly contradictory because I do generally advocate waiting as long as possible, but there are always exceptions.
Quite frankly, most are false or misleading. Like the one that says....
MYTH 1: You should never sleep with someone from work
Two-thirds of us meet our life partners through friends or at work – why should you be any different?
Take refuge in the fact it’s not even your fault!
New studies show close proximity breeds lust. Repeated exposure to practically any stimulus makes us like it more (the only time it doesn’t hold true is when our initial reaction to something is negative).
When we spend a lot of time with someone, our brain releases attachment hormones, which make us want to hang around pretty much permanently.
This actually isn’t a bad thing.
Couples who meet through work have a much clearer idea of what they’re getting themselves into.
After all, you’ve seen your partner react to all sorts of stressful situations during your average working day.
As for employer’s fears, most are unfounded: what better way to get employees to turn up early, stay late, look fantastic, willingly sign up for all extra curricular activities and generally beam their way through the working day?
And even if the affair ends, most flirtations fizzle out with remarkably unspectacular endings, as opposed to the fury of resignations or ruined relations people worry about.
MYTH 2: You should always tell the truth about your past
Around the time you both start getting gooey about each other, questions start being asked: ‘So… who else have you lived with/been out with/been in love with?’.
If you read the subtitles they clearly say ‘How many have you slept with?’
This is a danger zone for both sexes but particularly for women.
Even if you’ve managed to hook up with the world’s most liberated man, few can resist a knee-jerk reaction to an answer of ten or over, mainly because they haven’t thought it through.
So is it any wonder you found yourself muttering, ‘three’, and are now panicking about being caught out.
Here's why you shouldn’t feel bad about not really having had three.
A typical 30-year-old attractive woman has usually been sexually active since 16, had two long-term monogamous relationships each lasting around four years, clocked up two short-term relationships per year the rest of the time and had the odd casual fling.
That’s around 20 partners, by my estimate, or 25-30 if you’re dealing with a high libido or increased opportunity.
What he's really asking when he asks the ‘How many?’ question is ‘How special am I? Do you behave like this with everyone?’.
If he’s serious about you, he’s actually far more interested in what’s happened to your heart than your parts, so won’t be obsessed with doing the maths.
If he does start doing sums and you are discovered, appeal to his sense of logic.
Confronted with the above breakdown and other facts (like the number of lovers for both men and women is roughly the same these days, although because of the double standard men consistently report three times more) most men will see reason.
MYTH 3: You should never have sex on a first date
For 20somethings, this is an archaic question.
For over 30s, it’s still something that’s hotly contested.
I can list at least four couples without even blinking (let alone thinking) who had sex on the first date and are still happily together five to ten years later.
If you’re old enough, wise enough and have pretty decent people reading skills, who’s to say you can’t sum someone up during an average five hour date, at least enough to know they’re worth taking a risk on.
Sometimes you just know and some first dates can be so good, they backfire if you stop the flow.
Then there’s the pertinent question of what constitutes a first date?
If you’ve been friends for a while and then finally go out, are you on date one or date ten?
I know I’m being slightly contradictory because I do generally advocate waiting as long as possible, but there are always exceptions.
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
Sex Will Make You Smarter
Recent research straight from the lab demonstrates that sexual activity in adults may improve mental performance and help produce new neurons in the hippocampus, which is the part of the brain where long-term memories are formed. So much for doing crossword puzzles and sudoku! A separate study found that sex can counteract the kind of chronic stress that screws with the ability to remember things. (The first study was conducted on “middle-aged rats” and the second on mice. I wonder how midlife crises manifest themselves in middle-aged rats?!)
Of course, this may not be enough evidence to convert all those crossword and sudoku addicts to midlife sexual activity, so we thought we’d expand the news into a own nifty five-part list. Here are our Top 5 Reasons Why Sex Makes You Smarter:
1. Sex Helps You Grow New Brain Cells
If we were having more sex, we might be better equipped to explain this to you, but as we said above, in middle-aged rates, sex improves mental performance and long-term memory.
2. Sex Reduces Stress… Which Makes Your Memory Work Better
“Stress is one of the most potent inhibitors of hippocampal neurogenesis,” the scientists say, and we nod seriously and pretend to totally understand this. What we do understand is that sex can help fix this!
3. Sex Releases Endorphins…. Which Makes You Smarter
Endorphins are the “feel good” chemical — it acts as a natural painkiller, lessens anxiety (see #2, above), and helps you sleep better. All of which helps your brain, Einstein. More specifically, endorphins have been found to help calm and focus the brain.
4. Energetic Sex Boosts Circulation and Blood Flow… to the Brain
Energetic sex is a form of exercise, which boosts the blood flow to your brain… which makes it work better. Studies have found that both attention and focus improve for several hours after exercise — so hop on top, Pop!
5. Sex Builds Emotional Intelligence
Sex — or, at least, good sex — requires tuning into another person so completely that you know as much as they do (if not more!) about what turns them on. That’s a kind of focus we could all use more of, whether at home or work.
Of course, this may not be enough evidence to convert all those crossword and sudoku addicts to midlife sexual activity, so we thought we’d expand the news into a own nifty five-part list. Here are our Top 5 Reasons Why Sex Makes You Smarter:
1. Sex Helps You Grow New Brain Cells
If we were having more sex, we might be better equipped to explain this to you, but as we said above, in middle-aged rates, sex improves mental performance and long-term memory.
2. Sex Reduces Stress… Which Makes Your Memory Work Better
“Stress is one of the most potent inhibitors of hippocampal neurogenesis,” the scientists say, and we nod seriously and pretend to totally understand this. What we do understand is that sex can help fix this!
3. Sex Releases Endorphins…. Which Makes You Smarter
Endorphins are the “feel good” chemical — it acts as a natural painkiller, lessens anxiety (see #2, above), and helps you sleep better. All of which helps your brain, Einstein. More specifically, endorphins have been found to help calm and focus the brain.
4. Energetic Sex Boosts Circulation and Blood Flow… to the Brain
Energetic sex is a form of exercise, which boosts the blood flow to your brain… which makes it work better. Studies have found that both attention and focus improve for several hours after exercise — so hop on top, Pop!
5. Sex Builds Emotional Intelligence
Sex — or, at least, good sex — requires tuning into another person so completely that you know as much as they do (if not more!) about what turns them on. That’s a kind of focus we could all use more of, whether at home or work.
Tuesday, December 31, 2013
Cock Rings
Cock rings have many qualities that many men will enjoy :
1.When the penis is flaccid, cock rings act like a spacer. They distance the cock and balls from the rest of the body and, as a result, bring the whole package forward. Worn under clothing, cock rings thus help in shaping a flattering bulge in pants.
2.The weight of the cock ring (at least for heavier ones) tug on the genitals, emphasizing the owner’s perception of size and heft of their genitals. The weight also increases the man’s perception of his erection.
3. A correctly sized cock ring slightly squeezes the base of the shaft when the penis is erect, impeding the blood flow out of the penis. Consequently, the cock ring helps in fostering an erection that is maximally hard with the best girth possible.
4.As a part of the ejaculation process, the testicles need to be lifted and be pressed against the body. Since they impede on the rising of the testicles, cock rings help to delay ejaculation in part.
5.For men whose inguinal canals are too large (allowing the testicles to slip (at least in part) into these canals, the cock ring acts as a stopper to prevent the testes from entering this inguinal canal, thus avoiding painful ejaculations or some post orgasmic pains.
6.Cock rings are also useful for men with erectile dysfunction or those who tend to loose their erection too quickly, as a correctly sized ring will press on the veins of the penis and help maintain the erection.
There are various models of cock rings. Apart from the metal rings shown in the various example above, there are also rubber or silicone rings, as well as snap open/close rings. The later are the safest as they can be removed at any time.
True rings (like the metal examples above) can only be inserted or removed when the penis is flaccid. This can be a problem if the ring proves to be too small when full erection is achieved, creating a health hazard. (For metal cock rings, the soft penis must be inserted first, then the balls, one after the other. Same for rubber rings, generally. As for leather rings, they are usually held closed with a snap.)
Finally, it should be noted that, because they impede blood flow in part, cock rings should not be worn all day. They should be removed at least for the night to allow for a healthy blood flow (oxygenation and repair of tissues). And that is especially true for closed rings.
1.When the penis is flaccid, cock rings act like a spacer. They distance the cock and balls from the rest of the body and, as a result, bring the whole package forward. Worn under clothing, cock rings thus help in shaping a flattering bulge in pants.
2.The weight of the cock ring (at least for heavier ones) tug on the genitals, emphasizing the owner’s perception of size and heft of their genitals. The weight also increases the man’s perception of his erection.
3. A correctly sized cock ring slightly squeezes the base of the shaft when the penis is erect, impeding the blood flow out of the penis. Consequently, the cock ring helps in fostering an erection that is maximally hard with the best girth possible.
4.As a part of the ejaculation process, the testicles need to be lifted and be pressed against the body. Since they impede on the rising of the testicles, cock rings help to delay ejaculation in part.
5.For men whose inguinal canals are too large (allowing the testicles to slip (at least in part) into these canals, the cock ring acts as a stopper to prevent the testes from entering this inguinal canal, thus avoiding painful ejaculations or some post orgasmic pains.
6.Cock rings are also useful for men with erectile dysfunction or those who tend to loose their erection too quickly, as a correctly sized ring will press on the veins of the penis and help maintain the erection.
There are various models of cock rings. Apart from the metal rings shown in the various example above, there are also rubber or silicone rings, as well as snap open/close rings. The later are the safest as they can be removed at any time.
True rings (like the metal examples above) can only be inserted or removed when the penis is flaccid. This can be a problem if the ring proves to be too small when full erection is achieved, creating a health hazard. (For metal cock rings, the soft penis must be inserted first, then the balls, one after the other. Same for rubber rings, generally. As for leather rings, they are usually held closed with a snap.)
Finally, it should be noted that, because they impede blood flow in part, cock rings should not be worn all day. They should be removed at least for the night to allow for a healthy blood flow (oxygenation and repair of tissues). And that is especially true for closed rings.
Monday, December 9, 2013
New Sex Rule: The 7-Minute Limit On Blowjobs
Here ye, here ye! We, the women of The Frisky, hereby decree that blowjobs should last no longer than seven minutes. Why seven minutes you ask? Men, let us do you a favor and explain why.
The initial enthusiasm to give a blowjob starts to die around the 5-minute mark. Slobbing the knob is hard fucking work. Your lady is concentrating on sheathing her teeth, generating spit, sucking, working her tongue, bobbing her head at the right rhythm all while trying to interpret what will make you come faster. (Note: We didn’t say harder.) Did his dick just flex? Was that a moan? To play with the balls, or not to play with the balls?
After seven minutes, severe boredom starts to set in. Our minds start to wander. We begin to create unrelated to do lists. Do I have milk? After he’s done, I really should do laundry. Ooh, is a new episode of “Scandal” on tonight? What’s Mellie gonna do next?! The list-making comes to an end pretty quickly though, as lip, neck, and jaw ache starts to set in. Not fun. We would like to invite all men to work a cucumber for 10 minutes and see how it feels.
After the 10-minute mark, annoyance starts to set in. Guys, seriously, if she keeps changing up her technique, she isn’t teasing you. She doesn’t want to prolong the process, trust. She was forced to use her hands from fear of dislocating her jaw. At this point, she’s probably staring up at you in anger wondering if you masturbated all day and that’s why you’re taking so long.
Men, don’t interpret this the wrong way. We don’t tell you this to put the pressure on. For everyone’s sake don’t stress out. (Most people can’t come under stress.) We share this information to assist you. We appreciate the time you spend reciprocating oral and are sure you have your own list of woes. But if blowjobs only lasted a seven minutes, more women would enjoy giving them and men would receive them at a higher frequency.
Men, do yourself a favor, come faster or, after seven minutes, smile down at her and tell her you want to fuck. We bet you 9 out of 10 times she gratefully replies yes.
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Day Off, Clothes Off, Game On
When you ditch work for the sole purpose of getting laid it can make for awkward next-day conversation at the water cooler. “So, what did you do yesterday?”, they always ask. “I shot a hot load of cum deep into my wife’s ass”, I’d like to say before taking another sip of water and watching their eyes react.
Actually, that would only tell part of the story… and it’s not really fair to cut out the true context of Sue’s and my day off together. We’re a couple months into an upswing, enjoying a closeness and fondness for each other that goes missing sometimes. Long term relationships can be like that, going through cycles where the intimacy gap waxes and wanes in a slow rhythm beneath the melody of lives intertwined. Sometimes Sue’s love is so strong that she even looks past my mixed metaphors.
Our day to day responsibilities leave little room for spontaneity so we try to push the clutter aside and plan quality (i.e. sexy) time together. She took the kids to school while I lit a fire, dusted off the massage table, and warmed up the coconut oil. The anticipation hardwired into such prep work is enough to make a soft man hard.
I spent the next hour hungrily touching every inch of her; every muscle, every freckle, every fold. We were in constant intimate contact in peaceful surroundings, our world of other obligations melted and evaporated into nothing. It was just us. Together and in love like the day we married, naked and in tune with each others’ every breath. Massage is a wonderful gift of sharing and we recommend it highly.
We showered together, I helped her soap the excess oil from places hard to reach and places fun to touch. We dried our bodies, brushed our hair, got ourselves ready for the day… and then went back to bed. The details, which messed up our bed so badly, do not need to be mentioned but I will say Sue has talents only I really know about. Wowza!
Back at the water cooler… I want to explain that Sue’s ass was completely irresistible because she surprised me with a jeweled butt plug much like this one. She ordered it, received it, and inserted it without my catching on. I discovered it peeking out between her cheeks like she was Queen of the Assholes. I kneeled, I kissed, and then I took the Queen’s precious jewel and fucked her real good.
I’d love to imagine what goes through my co-workers jealous little heads when I leave for a week.
Actually, that would only tell part of the story… and it’s not really fair to cut out the true context of Sue’s and my day off together. We’re a couple months into an upswing, enjoying a closeness and fondness for each other that goes missing sometimes. Long term relationships can be like that, going through cycles where the intimacy gap waxes and wanes in a slow rhythm beneath the melody of lives intertwined. Sometimes Sue’s love is so strong that she even looks past my mixed metaphors.
Our day to day responsibilities leave little room for spontaneity so we try to push the clutter aside and plan quality (i.e. sexy) time together. She took the kids to school while I lit a fire, dusted off the massage table, and warmed up the coconut oil. The anticipation hardwired into such prep work is enough to make a soft man hard.
I spent the next hour hungrily touching every inch of her; every muscle, every freckle, every fold. We were in constant intimate contact in peaceful surroundings, our world of other obligations melted and evaporated into nothing. It was just us. Together and in love like the day we married, naked and in tune with each others’ every breath. Massage is a wonderful gift of sharing and we recommend it highly.
We showered together, I helped her soap the excess oil from places hard to reach and places fun to touch. We dried our bodies, brushed our hair, got ourselves ready for the day… and then went back to bed. The details, which messed up our bed so badly, do not need to be mentioned but I will say Sue has talents only I really know about. Wowza!
Back at the water cooler… I want to explain that Sue’s ass was completely irresistible because she surprised me with a jeweled butt plug much like this one. She ordered it, received it, and inserted it without my catching on. I discovered it peeking out between her cheeks like she was Queen of the Assholes. I kneeled, I kissed, and then I took the Queen’s precious jewel and fucked her real good.
I’d love to imagine what goes through my co-workers jealous little heads when I leave for a week.
Friday, November 8, 2013
How to Make Her Cum.
Here are some fab tips and tricks for you, from me, about what the ladies want / expect / wish / demand / lust / desire.... when it comes to foreplay in the bedroom (wherever your actively fucking):
1. The massage. I put this at the very top of the list, because it is my truly, absolutely, most favorite part of the whole escapade. Massages can be so hot, sexy, romantic, sensual, and just a plain turn on! I genuinely would bang a female massage therapist that I’m not psychically attracted to, just because she gives a good massage. Seriously. And by “bang,” I mean she could even go down on me. I just love massages, and want to express to my Bro’s how a simple massage could turn into the best sex of your life. A tip: remember her upper thighs... those are the best parts!
2. Kissing! I love kissing – fresh breath and tongue, on my neck and all over my body – kissing is the perfect lead-in to feeling up and down her body. Getting her wet, with your cock hard, and teasing the fuck out of each other…so HOT. Just remember: fresh breath is ALWAYS appreciated.
3. Setting the mood. Ultimately, any place you want to fuck can probably be accommodated, aside from the really illegal places... and any place can be set up to be a real sexy area, but the trick for me is in the pre-planning. Everything in life is smoother with a game plan, right? The other day, I cleared my hotel furniture and attempted to fuck on the windowsill. It could have backfired, but the attempt is what counted, and planning helped a lot before we even got started! So – try to make the location of the sex fun, frisky, and hot. Use candles and lighting, scents and music, decor or none at all – just think about how the place makes you feel, and how it will make her feel, and increase it with your senses so the kind of sex you have is inspired by the mood you’ve set.
4. Conversation. Sounds so simple, but a great interaction with someone, a real intellectual talk, even a spiritual one, or even a fun and playful banter, can change the way I see an individual. Try to not be too full of yourself – and make sure to ask her lots of questions about herself. People love to talk about themselves, don’t you? Having a hard time breaking the ice? Knowing a little about what’s going on in the world, or in pop culture, or having common likes and dislikes, can really help to spark interest.
5. Titty play. Boobs can be ultra sensitive; I know mine are! Lots of attention to my tits is always appreciated, and makes a woman feel really sexually desired, so make sure to touch them and caress them, suck them, and lick them – and of course if foreplay goes accordingly... TITTY FUCK them! Of course, tread carefully – some girls get annoyed if they’re not turned on before titty play, so if she seems like that kind of girl, maybe start with something else to get her warmed up before attacking the tits.
6. Butt play. It’s not for the weak of heart. I’m only kidding in my case – that’s totally a turn on to me, and I don't mean just anal sex. I mean you can softly or roughly grab my ass, kiss it, lick it, and anally rim it. I love a man to want to eat my ass out, with his tongue deep inside me. Is that too much info?
7. Play with that clitoris. Start just over the top of, twirl it around, and listen to her moans to see what she's into. Make sure you’re not going too hard, by asking her how she likes it. Kiss her when you’re playing with her clit, and look into her eyes, and touch her neck with your mouth. This can all lead to an orgasm, with absolutely no sex…and she’ll thank you for it!
8. Finger that pussy. All this action has got her soaking wet by now – at least mine would be. So slip your clean fingers deep inside of her, and bang her, nice and slow, and then speed it up. Make sure she is okay with this – you can move up to 2 fingers or more, which can be really fun as well.
9. Spanking. My personal fetish can get a certain type of woman in the mood to play dirty, and I mean real dirty. Make sure you test it out first though – start softly, and see if she's into it. If she’s not into it, do not continue. But more than likely she is, and you should absolutely try to “punish” her to the extent that she is comfortable. This is about turning HER on, not hurting her! :)
10. Pussy licking. My personal favorite and most important part! If she’s nervous, keep working at it to convince her to love it. If she's going to have sex with you, how could she not, right? Some girls are very insecure about their girl parts, and need a little extra confidence about how good they taste, and smell, and feel. Get your tongue and face up in there, and be the man I know you are – eat her out properly!
11. Make her cum.
1. The massage. I put this at the very top of the list, because it is my truly, absolutely, most favorite part of the whole escapade. Massages can be so hot, sexy, romantic, sensual, and just a plain turn on! I genuinely would bang a female massage therapist that I’m not psychically attracted to, just because she gives a good massage. Seriously. And by “bang,” I mean she could even go down on me. I just love massages, and want to express to my Bro’s how a simple massage could turn into the best sex of your life. A tip: remember her upper thighs... those are the best parts!
2. Kissing! I love kissing – fresh breath and tongue, on my neck and all over my body – kissing is the perfect lead-in to feeling up and down her body. Getting her wet, with your cock hard, and teasing the fuck out of each other…so HOT. Just remember: fresh breath is ALWAYS appreciated.
3. Setting the mood. Ultimately, any place you want to fuck can probably be accommodated, aside from the really illegal places... and any place can be set up to be a real sexy area, but the trick for me is in the pre-planning. Everything in life is smoother with a game plan, right? The other day, I cleared my hotel furniture and attempted to fuck on the windowsill. It could have backfired, but the attempt is what counted, and planning helped a lot before we even got started! So – try to make the location of the sex fun, frisky, and hot. Use candles and lighting, scents and music, decor or none at all – just think about how the place makes you feel, and how it will make her feel, and increase it with your senses so the kind of sex you have is inspired by the mood you’ve set.
4. Conversation. Sounds so simple, but a great interaction with someone, a real intellectual talk, even a spiritual one, or even a fun and playful banter, can change the way I see an individual. Try to not be too full of yourself – and make sure to ask her lots of questions about herself. People love to talk about themselves, don’t you? Having a hard time breaking the ice? Knowing a little about what’s going on in the world, or in pop culture, or having common likes and dislikes, can really help to spark interest.
5. Titty play. Boobs can be ultra sensitive; I know mine are! Lots of attention to my tits is always appreciated, and makes a woman feel really sexually desired, so make sure to touch them and caress them, suck them, and lick them – and of course if foreplay goes accordingly... TITTY FUCK them! Of course, tread carefully – some girls get annoyed if they’re not turned on before titty play, so if she seems like that kind of girl, maybe start with something else to get her warmed up before attacking the tits.
6. Butt play. It’s not for the weak of heart. I’m only kidding in my case – that’s totally a turn on to me, and I don't mean just anal sex. I mean you can softly or roughly grab my ass, kiss it, lick it, and anally rim it. I love a man to want to eat my ass out, with his tongue deep inside me. Is that too much info?
7. Play with that clitoris. Start just over the top of, twirl it around, and listen to her moans to see what she's into. Make sure you’re not going too hard, by asking her how she likes it. Kiss her when you’re playing with her clit, and look into her eyes, and touch her neck with your mouth. This can all lead to an orgasm, with absolutely no sex…and she’ll thank you for it!
8. Finger that pussy. All this action has got her soaking wet by now – at least mine would be. So slip your clean fingers deep inside of her, and bang her, nice and slow, and then speed it up. Make sure she is okay with this – you can move up to 2 fingers or more, which can be really fun as well.
9. Spanking. My personal fetish can get a certain type of woman in the mood to play dirty, and I mean real dirty. Make sure you test it out first though – start softly, and see if she's into it. If she’s not into it, do not continue. But more than likely she is, and you should absolutely try to “punish” her to the extent that she is comfortable. This is about turning HER on, not hurting her! :)
10. Pussy licking. My personal favorite and most important part! If she’s nervous, keep working at it to convince her to love it. If she's going to have sex with you, how could she not, right? Some girls are very insecure about their girl parts, and need a little extra confidence about how good they taste, and smell, and feel. Get your tongue and face up in there, and be the man I know you are – eat her out properly!
11. Make her cum.
Friday, October 18, 2013
Sex With Blindfolds
Blindfolds for Beginners
A blindfold can increase sexual tension and magnify arousal; because when one your senses is lost all of the other senses become heightened to compensate. There is more to sex with blindfolds than you might imagine, so read on to find out how you can use these sexual aids to spice up your relationship.
Food Foreplay
The use of blindfolds doesn’t have to be overtly sexual, so if you are trying to persuade a partner to step outside of your love-making routine, a good place to start is outside of the bedroom. Blindfold her, or have her blindfold you and surprise each other’s taste buds with all kinds of yummy treats; like strawberries, honey or chocolate. Just avoid the temptation to slip something nasty in her mouth, like a chilli, if you want the fun to carry on in the bedroom afterwards.
Blindfolds in the Bedroom
Once you have built up a level of trust you can move the fun and games into the bedroom. If your partner is wearing the blindfold; undress her and then begin caressing her hands, toes, legs, back, stomach, face, neck, breasts and genitals. Experiment with the pressure of your touch and tease your partner by pausing before touching her again in an unexpected place – moving from one part of her body to another. Allow you lips to trace the lines of her body, kissing and licking as you move down towards her vagina. This is an intense form of foreplay, because she can't see what you're doing, which makes her anticipation that much more powerful.
She doesn’t have to be a passive partner, why not let her explore your body, smell the scent of your body or taste the flavour on your skin. This will allow her to focus all of her other senses. Or if you would prefer to be the submissive partner then reverse the roles and let her tie the blindfold on you. Then prepare to experience amazing sensations – when you can’t see what she is doing the feel of her hands or mouth on your skin is magnified two-fold and can be mind-blowing.
Inhibitions tend to diminish somewhat when people wear blindfolds and that is especially true for the unmasked partner, because they know that their facial expressions, movements or the parts of their body that they are self-conscious about can’t be seen. So to try something even more adventurous or liberating, why not both wear blindfolds?
Handy Household Items
Experimentation with blindfolds can be relatively spontaneous. You don’t have to plan it out in advance or buy a special blindfold. Instead, you can use things that you already have around the house like your ties, her scarves or anything else that can cover your eyes adequately.
A simple blindfold can result in an amazing level of arousal, so find that tie or scarf and enjoy!
A blindfold can increase sexual tension and magnify arousal; because when one your senses is lost all of the other senses become heightened to compensate. There is more to sex with blindfolds than you might imagine, so read on to find out how you can use these sexual aids to spice up your relationship.
Food Foreplay
The use of blindfolds doesn’t have to be overtly sexual, so if you are trying to persuade a partner to step outside of your love-making routine, a good place to start is outside of the bedroom. Blindfold her, or have her blindfold you and surprise each other’s taste buds with all kinds of yummy treats; like strawberries, honey or chocolate. Just avoid the temptation to slip something nasty in her mouth, like a chilli, if you want the fun to carry on in the bedroom afterwards.
Blindfolds in the Bedroom
Once you have built up a level of trust you can move the fun and games into the bedroom. If your partner is wearing the blindfold; undress her and then begin caressing her hands, toes, legs, back, stomach, face, neck, breasts and genitals. Experiment with the pressure of your touch and tease your partner by pausing before touching her again in an unexpected place – moving from one part of her body to another. Allow you lips to trace the lines of her body, kissing and licking as you move down towards her vagina. This is an intense form of foreplay, because she can't see what you're doing, which makes her anticipation that much more powerful.
She doesn’t have to be a passive partner, why not let her explore your body, smell the scent of your body or taste the flavour on your skin. This will allow her to focus all of her other senses. Or if you would prefer to be the submissive partner then reverse the roles and let her tie the blindfold on you. Then prepare to experience amazing sensations – when you can’t see what she is doing the feel of her hands or mouth on your skin is magnified two-fold and can be mind-blowing.
Inhibitions tend to diminish somewhat when people wear blindfolds and that is especially true for the unmasked partner, because they know that their facial expressions, movements or the parts of their body that they are self-conscious about can’t be seen. So to try something even more adventurous or liberating, why not both wear blindfolds?
Handy Household Items
Experimentation with blindfolds can be relatively spontaneous. You don’t have to plan it out in advance or buy a special blindfold. Instead, you can use things that you already have around the house like your ties, her scarves or anything else that can cover your eyes adequately.
A simple blindfold can result in an amazing level of arousal, so find that tie or scarf and enjoy!
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Online Dating
The concept of online dating can be considered daunting for some, especially if it is your first foray into the world of finding a date online! There are countless success stories as well as those who simply did not manage to find someone compatible! If you look into the facts about online dating you can easily use these to your advantage to create a profile which will help you get the most out of your experience and help you meet your dream partner and perhaps make some new friends along the way!
The first step you need to take is actually joining a dating site and this maybe where a lot of your success lies. There are countless generic dating sites which are open to people of all interests, backgrounds, jobs and ages and these tend to have the most members to contact. In addition to this there are niche specific dating sites which are only open to a small selection of individuals, this could be by job, age, particular interest and so on, where in some cases although the number of members will be limited you may find it easier to connect with someone. Increasingly there are dating sites which require you to do a personality test and the results of which will match you with someone whose answers are said to be compatible to yours. After choosing the type you then have the option of free or paid dating sites, once again this is down to personal preference.
If you are happy to join one of the paid dating sites I would recommend you looking for coupons, discounts and special offers, you may be able to save some money on your subscription.
Your profile creation will be the most important part of joining, this is the first impression that everyone will see and what will result in opinions being formed. The most important thing to consider at this point is to always be yourself. Although you may find this is a great opportunity to ‘reinvent’ yourself online if your internet persona does not carry through into your real life persona then you will quickly find you will be meeting people who think you are someone you really aren’t resulting in potential incompatibilities, failed dates and wasted time.
To find someone who suits you perfectly fill in as much of the information as required and although you may find some of your interests quirky and prefer to hide them, having them on your profile will give you the opportunity to meet someone else with a shared interest.
When it comes to photographs it is essential that you have at least one, although it is not a requirement to join you will find that profiles without photographs tend to be completely overlooked.
Take time to properly complete your profile, the more information there is with a picture, headline and so on the more people will have to go off.
Don’t be afraid to make the first move, if you like someone’s profile send them a message, don’t go for something generic! Try and connect with what interested you about the particular profile in the first place, perhaps a shared interest or maybe you have both travelled to the same country? Whatever it is, mention it, it can be a great starting point.
When you have found someone you would like to meet arrange a date in a public place, don’t invite them back to your home and don’t go to theirs. Ensure you are safe at all times which is easily done if you are in a public place and follow safety principles.
The first step you need to take is actually joining a dating site and this maybe where a lot of your success lies. There are countless generic dating sites which are open to people of all interests, backgrounds, jobs and ages and these tend to have the most members to contact. In addition to this there are niche specific dating sites which are only open to a small selection of individuals, this could be by job, age, particular interest and so on, where in some cases although the number of members will be limited you may find it easier to connect with someone. Increasingly there are dating sites which require you to do a personality test and the results of which will match you with someone whose answers are said to be compatible to yours. After choosing the type you then have the option of free or paid dating sites, once again this is down to personal preference.
If you are happy to join one of the paid dating sites I would recommend you looking for coupons, discounts and special offers, you may be able to save some money on your subscription.
Your profile creation will be the most important part of joining, this is the first impression that everyone will see and what will result in opinions being formed. The most important thing to consider at this point is to always be yourself. Although you may find this is a great opportunity to ‘reinvent’ yourself online if your internet persona does not carry through into your real life persona then you will quickly find you will be meeting people who think you are someone you really aren’t resulting in potential incompatibilities, failed dates and wasted time.
To find someone who suits you perfectly fill in as much of the information as required and although you may find some of your interests quirky and prefer to hide them, having them on your profile will give you the opportunity to meet someone else with a shared interest.
When it comes to photographs it is essential that you have at least one, although it is not a requirement to join you will find that profiles without photographs tend to be completely overlooked.
Take time to properly complete your profile, the more information there is with a picture, headline and so on the more people will have to go off.
Don’t be afraid to make the first move, if you like someone’s profile send them a message, don’t go for something generic! Try and connect with what interested you about the particular profile in the first place, perhaps a shared interest or maybe you have both travelled to the same country? Whatever it is, mention it, it can be a great starting point.
When you have found someone you would like to meet arrange a date in a public place, don’t invite them back to your home and don’t go to theirs. Ensure you are safe at all times which is easily done if you are in a public place and follow safety principles.
Friday, August 9, 2013
How to Get Naked
1. Be Proud Of That Belly
"If you're already undressing, you've made it that far, but now is the big moment. Don't suck in your gut. Be confident -- what you have is what you have, and it's all going to be revealed in time, right? So just go with it and feel good about yourself."
2. You're Not Magic Mike
"Don't do any swinging around. I don't think that's a good idea. You're not in the Chippendales. Maybe I would say a cute little hip swing or something -- that's adorable, that could be cute. Maybe a little bit of a dance move, but no swinging around!"
3. Keep The Playlist Chill
"No putting on music, 'cause then you'll feel like you need to dance and perform [unless] it's something...in the background, setting the mood. Nothing like 'I Believe in Miracles.' We want to stay away from the '80s. No 'It's Raining Men.'"
4. Shirt Goes First
"I would say don't just leave your shirt on. Probably start with taking off the shirt."
5. Socks Go Last
"I think that's actually very cute. I do. Because you're confident enough to leave your socks on 'til the end, and that's the greatest reveal. The socks come off, and then you're fully nude!"
"If you're already undressing, you've made it that far, but now is the big moment. Don't suck in your gut. Be confident -- what you have is what you have, and it's all going to be revealed in time, right? So just go with it and feel good about yourself."
2. You're Not Magic Mike
"Don't do any swinging around. I don't think that's a good idea. You're not in the Chippendales. Maybe I would say a cute little hip swing or something -- that's adorable, that could be cute. Maybe a little bit of a dance move, but no swinging around!"
3. Keep The Playlist Chill
"No putting on music, 'cause then you'll feel like you need to dance and perform [unless] it's something...in the background, setting the mood. Nothing like 'I Believe in Miracles.' We want to stay away from the '80s. No 'It's Raining Men.'"
4. Shirt Goes First
"I would say don't just leave your shirt on. Probably start with taking off the shirt."
5. Socks Go Last
"I think that's actually very cute. I do. Because you're confident enough to leave your socks on 'til the end, and that's the greatest reveal. The socks come off, and then you're fully nude!"
Monday, July 8, 2013
The Naked Hug
We practice an astonishingly simple strategy to maintain an intimate connection amid the challenges and distractions of the lives we lead together and apart. Naked hugs.
Simple, intuitive, obvious even, but far too many of us overlook the most basic solutions to our greatest needs. To love, to feel love, and to feel the support of an intimately connected partner is a foundation upon which a rich and rewarding life can be built.
Skin (our largest organ) gives us an invaluable communications tool which transcends language and has the ability to affect our very chemistry; lowering stress levels and raising feel good hormones like Oxytocin. This is not just true for lovers.
“The conversation between your fingers and someone else’s skin. This is the most important discussion you can ever have.” — Iain Thomas
Adopting the classic American ideology of "more is better", I suggest that the regular hugs you're already giving might be cranked up a few notches in potency if you were both naked. That you should strip down together and go toe to toe, that she should bare her breasts and press them against you because science says it's for the greater good. And it works.
You now have a daily commitment to linger naked in each other's arms, no matter what, and it's how you end each day (usually in bed). Your touch speaks for you... it expresses vulnerability and trust, love and lust, our history and futures together. It is paradoxically both grounding and elevating and weaves you back together.
As the proud owner of a "Y" chromosome, when she wraps her naked body around your largest organ is a pretty effective sexual trigger. Well... maybe I give my chromosome too much credit because she gets worked up by all the skin-on-skin too. Sex is more frequent (and better) on the naked-hug-a-day plan.
If you try this at home, and you should, keep in mind that sex should never be the goal. It is important to give yourself over fully to the embrace, to feel every inch of skin touching you and to pour love out through your every pore. I believe this is the essence of what we seek in sex anyway, before the genitals interrupt with their very important needs.
Setting aside a few moments each day to touch each other is simple and practical. It doesn't take practiced communication skills, negotiation, or reflective listening (all important in their own way). Instead, it leverages your own collective biology to reduce stress, defuse conflict, and reinforce long held priorities. It's free, readily available, and can lead to better, more frequent sex.
The Naked Hug is a no brainer.
Simple, intuitive, obvious even, but far too many of us overlook the most basic solutions to our greatest needs. To love, to feel love, and to feel the support of an intimately connected partner is a foundation upon which a rich and rewarding life can be built.
Skin (our largest organ) gives us an invaluable communications tool which transcends language and has the ability to affect our very chemistry; lowering stress levels and raising feel good hormones like Oxytocin. This is not just true for lovers.
“The conversation between your fingers and someone else’s skin. This is the most important discussion you can ever have.” — Iain Thomas
Adopting the classic American ideology of "more is better", I suggest that the regular hugs you're already giving might be cranked up a few notches in potency if you were both naked. That you should strip down together and go toe to toe, that she should bare her breasts and press them against you because science says it's for the greater good. And it works.
You now have a daily commitment to linger naked in each other's arms, no matter what, and it's how you end each day (usually in bed). Your touch speaks for you... it expresses vulnerability and trust, love and lust, our history and futures together. It is paradoxically both grounding and elevating and weaves you back together.
As the proud owner of a "Y" chromosome, when she wraps her naked body around your largest organ is a pretty effective sexual trigger. Well... maybe I give my chromosome too much credit because she gets worked up by all the skin-on-skin too. Sex is more frequent (and better) on the naked-hug-a-day plan.
If you try this at home, and you should, keep in mind that sex should never be the goal. It is important to give yourself over fully to the embrace, to feel every inch of skin touching you and to pour love out through your every pore. I believe this is the essence of what we seek in sex anyway, before the genitals interrupt with their very important needs.
Setting aside a few moments each day to touch each other is simple and practical. It doesn't take practiced communication skills, negotiation, or reflective listening (all important in their own way). Instead, it leverages your own collective biology to reduce stress, defuse conflict, and reinforce long held priorities. It's free, readily available, and can lead to better, more frequent sex.
The Naked Hug is a no brainer.
Friday, May 31, 2013
5 Fun Foreplay Positions
Star 69
Description: In classic 69 form, you face each other's genitals for a great double oral sex session. In this position, she lies on the bottom and spreads her legs in the air, while you make your way on top of her.
Benefits for you: As in "The dairy cow," you can control all motions and intensity according to what you like. Another rewarding thing about this position is that you have the option of using your fingers if your tongue starts to tire out.
Benefits for her: She gets to lie down -- legs spread-eagle -- and enjoy the ride. Pleasing you is simple through the magic of alignment -- her head rests nicely under your groin area. Also, she has two options when it comes to using her free hands. She can either take the "it's-all-about-me" route and use them to caress herself, or she can take the "selfless" route and use them on you for some extra pleasure.
Wetting your appetite
Foreplay isn't restricted to oral sex alone. Have a good time with other techniques that promote just touching -- this can really help with arousal and build up to some wild sex later. So, try these fun positions to shape up for gettin' down.
Poolside
Description: While she lies on her stomach, you approach her from between her legs. Place a pillow under her stomach to give you easier access to her genitals.
Benefits for you: You're in control here -- use your hands, use just your fingers, use your tongue and your lips. Any way you do it, she's sure to enjoy the pampering.
Benefits for her: One of the great things about this position is the element of surprise -- she can't really see you and has no idea what to expect. The "mystery" factor can lead to an overwhelming heightened sensation as she enjoys you enjoying her.
The electric slide
Description: She leans on her side with one leg bent up and one stretched out; you lie on her outstretched leg, facing away from her. This position is great for caressing and massaging her legs and feet (and for getting yourself a little massage-action too).
Benefits for you: This position is not only a relaxing, easy-going mutual foot massage technique. It leaves your backside exposed for her to caress, making anal stimulation a possibility if you'd like. Also, if you've got yourself a foot fetish, you don't need me to tell you that this is surely the way to go.
Benefits for her: Obviously, this is an ideal way to help her unwind and get into the mood. Hardly anyone can resist the sensuous charms of a relaxing rubdown.
Sealing the deal
Who said positions were only reserved for intercourse? They can also be very helpful before sex too. Try out these moves before doing the deed and see how they can contribute to the fun.
Keep in mind: Great play beforehand will certainly increase your chances of amazing sex afterward.
Description: In classic 69 form, you face each other's genitals for a great double oral sex session. In this position, she lies on the bottom and spreads her legs in the air, while you make your way on top of her.
Benefits for you: As in "The dairy cow," you can control all motions and intensity according to what you like. Another rewarding thing about this position is that you have the option of using your fingers if your tongue starts to tire out.
Benefits for her: She gets to lie down -- legs spread-eagle -- and enjoy the ride. Pleasing you is simple through the magic of alignment -- her head rests nicely under your groin area. Also, she has two options when it comes to using her free hands. She can either take the "it's-all-about-me" route and use them to caress herself, or she can take the "selfless" route and use them on you for some extra pleasure.
Wetting your appetite
Foreplay isn't restricted to oral sex alone. Have a good time with other techniques that promote just touching -- this can really help with arousal and build up to some wild sex later. So, try these fun positions to shape up for gettin' down.
Poolside
Description: While she lies on her stomach, you approach her from between her legs. Place a pillow under her stomach to give you easier access to her genitals.
Benefits for you: You're in control here -- use your hands, use just your fingers, use your tongue and your lips. Any way you do it, she's sure to enjoy the pampering.
Benefits for her: One of the great things about this position is the element of surprise -- she can't really see you and has no idea what to expect. The "mystery" factor can lead to an overwhelming heightened sensation as she enjoys you enjoying her.
The electric slide
Description: She leans on her side with one leg bent up and one stretched out; you lie on her outstretched leg, facing away from her. This position is great for caressing and massaging her legs and feet (and for getting yourself a little massage-action too).
Benefits for you: This position is not only a relaxing, easy-going mutual foot massage technique. It leaves your backside exposed for her to caress, making anal stimulation a possibility if you'd like. Also, if you've got yourself a foot fetish, you don't need me to tell you that this is surely the way to go.
Benefits for her: Obviously, this is an ideal way to help her unwind and get into the mood. Hardly anyone can resist the sensuous charms of a relaxing rubdown.
Sealing the deal
Who said positions were only reserved for intercourse? They can also be very helpful before sex too. Try out these moves before doing the deed and see how they can contribute to the fun.
Keep in mind: Great play beforehand will certainly increase your chances of amazing sex afterward.
Monday, May 6, 2013
The Month of May is Masturbation Month
Ah, the month of May. The weather heats up, the clothes come off and society encourages everyone to masturbate themselves silly. You read that right -- May is National Masturbation Month. So take a guilt-free break from trying to win over the girl of your dreams and focus on yourself for a little instead with the knowledge that everyone’s cool with it.
And if you’re brave enough to help destroy the stigma around self-love, you can raise money for sex-awareness groups at events like Philadelphia’s Masturbate-a-thon Fundraiser. Only 29 days left in May. Better get started!
And if you’re brave enough to help destroy the stigma around self-love, you can raise money for sex-awareness groups at events like Philadelphia’s Masturbate-a-thon Fundraiser. Only 29 days left in May. Better get started!
Thursday, March 28, 2013
In Defense of the Slut
How many times have you heard people say, “If she wasn’t such a slut…” or, “She’s kind of a slut, but…” or, “I can’t believe she’s slept with [X number] of people”?
I always interject by pointing out that being a slut is not a bad thing — at least, not in the way I define it, i.e. enthusiastically enjoying your sexuality in ways that are always physically and emotionally safe. There is a big difference between sleeping with ten different guys in one month and taking ten Plan B pills in one month. The former is perfectly fine sluttiness (that I encourage!) while the other has nothing to do with sluttiness and everything to do with being careless and irresponsible. I’ll take the side of sluts any day.
How We Learn the Slut Stigma
At a young age we are often taught that women are somehow damaged if they do not “save themselves” sexually for their one true love. As we grow older, many of us find ourselves – naturally — wanting to have sex before marriage or even true love, but the negative connotations attached to more casual sex can still linger, sometimes subconsciously. This can make women feel detached from their own sexual pleasure, turning sex into something that a women does for someone else rather than for herself. How many times a day do we hear the message that a man needs to work hard in order to convince or trick or pressure a woman to sleep with him in order satisfy his natural animalistic libido, while less lustful-women women resist and hold out until perhaps they eventually “give it up.” The conventional cultural wisdom tells us sex is something men do to women, not something people do together on an even playing field, and certainly not something women ever do to men. You hear that enough times, you start to believe it.
Why People Don’t Want the Slut Stigma to Go Away
We all know the tired old double standard of how awesome and studly men are when they sleep around, compared to how dirty, loose, and unlady-like women are when they have a few notches on the bedpost. Stigmatizing the word “slut” has become a way of controlling women’s sexual behavior. If a women thinks that having a lot of sexual partners makes her undesirable, then she might avoid that kind of behavior. She may end up staying in a relationship that is unhealthy, just to make sure she does not sleep with too many people. She may miss out on experiences that she might otherwise enjoy. And if she dares to follow her desires, the guilt and shame that may follow can be debilitating. Thanks to slut shaming, a woman’s sexual agency is seriously limited.
Why the Slut Stigma Is Dangerous
Using the term “slut” as a pejorative is, in part, responsible for the way in which rape victims often get blamed. A woman was raped because she was “scantily clad,” she was “asking for it,” she was “leading him on” — you know, acting like a “slut.” Retaliating against this way of thinking is what spurred the proliferation of the SlutWalks over the past few years. Organizers wanted to reclaim the word “slut” as something positive.
Why We Need to Embrace “Slut”
Expressing one’s sexuality is a good and healthy thing — duh, right? A thousand studies tell us that sex is good for us, but not everyone seems to have gotten the memo. We are told, over and over, that we need to have more sex and better sex and hotter sex — and yet we should also be careful not to explore too much or say too much.
You’d think we’d be over the whole madonna-whore thing by now (yawn), but just last year on Bravo’s reality show “Miss Advised,” columnist Julia Allison described the perfect dress to wear on a first date as one that says to the man, “You can take me home to your mom and I might give you a blowjob on the way there.” Ludacris jumped on the bandwagon with his less-than-original lyric “a lady in the street and a freak in the bed.” Aside from the fact that women are more interesting and more complex then these media portrayals, in both of these examples the sexual part of the women must be hidden in order for her to be seen as respectable.
Women deserve respect. Women are sexual creatures. Ergo, women’s sexuality deserves respect.
What We Can Do to Help
If we could be more open about sex at a young age and actually call a vulva a vulva and not a “private part” or — I even cringe typing this — a”vay-jay-jay,” we might all be better off. We have vaginas just like we have elbows and legs. As much as society does not want to admit it, Freud had it right when he said infants are sexual creatures too. We masturbated as children because we were curious about our bodies. As sex negativity grew, we explored less. Whether you want to find your inner Anastasia Steele/Christian Grey relationship exclusively with your spouse, or you want to enjoy some simple vanilla missionary with your whole block, I don’t think you should be judged any differently. Just keep it honest and safe.
A Slut Mission Statement
I love sluts, perverts, deviants, freaks, and geeks alike. As long as you are fucking in the name of pleasure (and consent), you are okay in my book. A pervert is someone who is not only conscious, but proud, of their sexual nature. That is already more than what a lot of people can say. If you find someone attractive and it just so happens you also like getting off, I say go for it.
I always interject by pointing out that being a slut is not a bad thing — at least, not in the way I define it, i.e. enthusiastically enjoying your sexuality in ways that are always physically and emotionally safe. There is a big difference between sleeping with ten different guys in one month and taking ten Plan B pills in one month. The former is perfectly fine sluttiness (that I encourage!) while the other has nothing to do with sluttiness and everything to do with being careless and irresponsible. I’ll take the side of sluts any day.
How We Learn the Slut Stigma
At a young age we are often taught that women are somehow damaged if they do not “save themselves” sexually for their one true love. As we grow older, many of us find ourselves – naturally — wanting to have sex before marriage or even true love, but the negative connotations attached to more casual sex can still linger, sometimes subconsciously. This can make women feel detached from their own sexual pleasure, turning sex into something that a women does for someone else rather than for herself. How many times a day do we hear the message that a man needs to work hard in order to convince or trick or pressure a woman to sleep with him in order satisfy his natural animalistic libido, while less lustful-women women resist and hold out until perhaps they eventually “give it up.” The conventional cultural wisdom tells us sex is something men do to women, not something people do together on an even playing field, and certainly not something women ever do to men. You hear that enough times, you start to believe it.
Why People Don’t Want the Slut Stigma to Go Away
We all know the tired old double standard of how awesome and studly men are when they sleep around, compared to how dirty, loose, and unlady-like women are when they have a few notches on the bedpost. Stigmatizing the word “slut” has become a way of controlling women’s sexual behavior. If a women thinks that having a lot of sexual partners makes her undesirable, then she might avoid that kind of behavior. She may end up staying in a relationship that is unhealthy, just to make sure she does not sleep with too many people. She may miss out on experiences that she might otherwise enjoy. And if she dares to follow her desires, the guilt and shame that may follow can be debilitating. Thanks to slut shaming, a woman’s sexual agency is seriously limited.
Why the Slut Stigma Is Dangerous
Using the term “slut” as a pejorative is, in part, responsible for the way in which rape victims often get blamed. A woman was raped because she was “scantily clad,” she was “asking for it,” she was “leading him on” — you know, acting like a “slut.” Retaliating against this way of thinking is what spurred the proliferation of the SlutWalks over the past few years. Organizers wanted to reclaim the word “slut” as something positive.
Why We Need to Embrace “Slut”
Expressing one’s sexuality is a good and healthy thing — duh, right? A thousand studies tell us that sex is good for us, but not everyone seems to have gotten the memo. We are told, over and over, that we need to have more sex and better sex and hotter sex — and yet we should also be careful not to explore too much or say too much.
You’d think we’d be over the whole madonna-whore thing by now (yawn), but just last year on Bravo’s reality show “Miss Advised,” columnist Julia Allison described the perfect dress to wear on a first date as one that says to the man, “You can take me home to your mom and I might give you a blowjob on the way there.” Ludacris jumped on the bandwagon with his less-than-original lyric “a lady in the street and a freak in the bed.” Aside from the fact that women are more interesting and more complex then these media portrayals, in both of these examples the sexual part of the women must be hidden in order for her to be seen as respectable.
Women deserve respect. Women are sexual creatures. Ergo, women’s sexuality deserves respect.
What We Can Do to Help
If we could be more open about sex at a young age and actually call a vulva a vulva and not a “private part” or — I even cringe typing this — a”vay-jay-jay,” we might all be better off. We have vaginas just like we have elbows and legs. As much as society does not want to admit it, Freud had it right when he said infants are sexual creatures too. We masturbated as children because we were curious about our bodies. As sex negativity grew, we explored less. Whether you want to find your inner Anastasia Steele/Christian Grey relationship exclusively with your spouse, or you want to enjoy some simple vanilla missionary with your whole block, I don’t think you should be judged any differently. Just keep it honest and safe.
A Slut Mission Statement
I love sluts, perverts, deviants, freaks, and geeks alike. As long as you are fucking in the name of pleasure (and consent), you are okay in my book. A pervert is someone who is not only conscious, but proud, of their sexual nature. That is already more than what a lot of people can say. If you find someone attractive and it just so happens you also like getting off, I say go for it.
Monday, March 25, 2013
Can You Enjoy Sex Without Having A Orgasm?
HELL NO.....
Throughout our sexual life we have been told that the only reason to have sex is to either make another human or to have an orgasm. If you fall outside of these guidelines then you should not even have sex because its no fun and useless. I am here to say that is such a bunch of Bull Shit! Sex is way more than making babies or making toes curl. We put a lot of pressure on our partners when it comes to orgasms and it can create dysfunction in our bedroom.
Studies show that about 75% of women have never achieved orgasm though penetration, and as many as 10% have never achieved an orgasm at all. If a woman does orgasm there is no guarantee that she will orgasm every time. So your girl friend is not alone. Also understand that the orgasm is 80% mental. During times of stress or turmoil it will be harder to focus on accepting pleasure. If there is past sexual trauma or negative ideals towards sex from upbringing that will be a big factor to.
Orgasms are a plus but they are not the only thing that makes sex great. Sex is about intimate connection. It’s about two people coming together to make each other feel a deeper level of pleasure and excitement. Take the emphasis off of the experience of the Big O and enjoy the experience of your lover.
Throughout our sexual life we have been told that the only reason to have sex is to either make another human or to have an orgasm. If you fall outside of these guidelines then you should not even have sex because its no fun and useless. I am here to say that is such a bunch of Bull Shit! Sex is way more than making babies or making toes curl. We put a lot of pressure on our partners when it comes to orgasms and it can create dysfunction in our bedroom.
Studies show that about 75% of women have never achieved orgasm though penetration, and as many as 10% have never achieved an orgasm at all. If a woman does orgasm there is no guarantee that she will orgasm every time. So your girl friend is not alone. Also understand that the orgasm is 80% mental. During times of stress or turmoil it will be harder to focus on accepting pleasure. If there is past sexual trauma or negative ideals towards sex from upbringing that will be a big factor to.
Orgasms are a plus but they are not the only thing that makes sex great. Sex is about intimate connection. It’s about two people coming together to make each other feel a deeper level of pleasure and excitement. Take the emphasis off of the experience of the Big O and enjoy the experience of your lover.
Friday, March 8, 2013
Why You Should Love Your Body Right Now
When we love someone — a boyfriend or girlfriend, a best friend, our parents, our kids — we love them unconditionally. We don’t keep track of random criteria that the person must fulfill.
Our loved ones don’t need a six-pack to gain our respect. They don’t need muscular legs, thinner thighs or chiseled cheekbones to have our appreciation and utmost love.
So why wait to respect our bodies based on a singular, random ideal? A standard essentially set by the very companies that profit from our insecurities, hang-ups and regular body-bashing?
Our bodies are intricate and complex machines and breathtaking works of art. They work behind the scenes on the bare essentials — like breathing, moving, seeing, hearing, touching — so we can go after our dreams.
So we can make our art. So we can make babies. So we can give love. Give hugs. Cook a delicious meal. Savor that meal, bite by tasty bite. Dance. Learn something new. Laugh.
Our bodies are vehicles that take us to amazing places, whether we get there through our feet or our hands. Whether we physically arrive at a destination, are able to read about it or compose a story.
We don’t need to wait until we have blemish-free, wrinkle-free skin to respect, appreciate and love ourselves. We don’t need to wait until we shed X amount of pounds. We don’t need to wait until we have a muscular stomach or a tinny tiny waist.
And we don’t need to stop respecting, appreciating or loving our bodies when we can’t do a certain exercise, or when we’re sick or tired or bloated.
Perfection — whatever that means to you, whether it’s continuously performing at your peak or having a sculpted stomach — isn’t a prerequisite for a positive body image, and it’s certainly not a prerequisite for appreciating and loving ourselves as a whole.
If it were, no one would love. No one would be loved.
But this couldn’t be further from the truth.
Love, of course, exists. And it exists in all shapes, sizes, colors, forms and flavors.
Our loved ones don’t need a six-pack to gain our respect. They don’t need muscular legs, thinner thighs or chiseled cheekbones to have our appreciation and utmost love.
So why wait to respect our bodies based on a singular, random ideal? A standard essentially set by the very companies that profit from our insecurities, hang-ups and regular body-bashing?
Our bodies are intricate and complex machines and breathtaking works of art. They work behind the scenes on the bare essentials — like breathing, moving, seeing, hearing, touching — so we can go after our dreams.
So we can make our art. So we can make babies. So we can give love. Give hugs. Cook a delicious meal. Savor that meal, bite by tasty bite. Dance. Learn something new. Laugh.
Our bodies are vehicles that take us to amazing places, whether we get there through our feet or our hands. Whether we physically arrive at a destination, are able to read about it or compose a story.
We don’t need to wait until we have blemish-free, wrinkle-free skin to respect, appreciate and love ourselves. We don’t need to wait until we shed X amount of pounds. We don’t need to wait until we have a muscular stomach or a tinny tiny waist.
And we don’t need to stop respecting, appreciating or loving our bodies when we can’t do a certain exercise, or when we’re sick or tired or bloated.
Perfection — whatever that means to you, whether it’s continuously performing at your peak or having a sculpted stomach — isn’t a prerequisite for a positive body image, and it’s certainly not a prerequisite for appreciating and loving ourselves as a whole.
If it were, no one would love. No one would be loved.
But this couldn’t be further from the truth.
Love, of course, exists. And it exists in all shapes, sizes, colors, forms and flavors.
Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Splatter from Isabella
She crept so very lightly into his shower
And as he felt her hands wrap quietly around his body
He relaxed easily into her loving touch
Her nipples brushing his back as she roamed his wet body
Over his chest
Down his hairy belly
Between his strong thighs
Wrapping her fingers around his restless erection
Eyes closed
He lived every touch of her soft hands
Gently cupping his heavy balls
Stroking firmly along the length of his shaft
Using his foreskin to caress his swollen head
Her thumb lingering slowly on his sweet spot
Bringing him slowly and gently to release
His knees buckled
As his climax swept through his body
His warm cum flowing from his cock
Spattering thickly on the floor of the shower
And as he watched it wash slowly down the drain
He realised she was already gone
Wondering for a moment
If she had ever been there at all…
And as he felt her hands wrap quietly around his body
He relaxed easily into her loving touch
Her nipples brushing his back as she roamed his wet body
Over his chest
Down his hairy belly
Between his strong thighs
Wrapping her fingers around his restless erection
Eyes closed
He lived every touch of her soft hands
Gently cupping his heavy balls
Stroking firmly along the length of his shaft
Using his foreskin to caress his swollen head
Her thumb lingering slowly on his sweet spot
Bringing him slowly and gently to release
His knees buckled
As his climax swept through his body
His warm cum flowing from his cock
Spattering thickly on the floor of the shower
And as he watched it wash slowly down the drain
He realised she was already gone
Wondering for a moment
If she had ever been there at all…
Friday, February 15, 2013
6 Unexpected Male Erogenous Zones
So you know everything about your partner, right? We wouldn’t doubt it for a second, but as with most things, it’s good to keep learning. When it comes to your man and what gets him turned on, check out these other erogenous zones that may be going unnoticed, and make sure you’re not missing the point!
His Forehead
Perhaps not the first erogenous zone that springs to mind, but hey that’s the point. The head and scalp are covered with nerve endings that will amplify the lightest touch, so try softly massaging from the hairline to the forehead. This will activate the release of feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin, resulting in some relaxation and a better mood that will get him in the mood.
The Back of His Knees
It might bemight be ticklish back there, but this area is very valuable when stimulated during foreplay. Due to the smoothness and hairlessness of the skin back there, it’s extra sensitive to touch, so try a light, circular stroke to turn up the heat before or during the main event.
His Ears
According to sex coach and sexuality educator Amy Levine, his ears are “… often a forgotten area that can soothe or excite.” By either focusing some soft smooches or hot breaths on his lobes, you can expect his excitement to grow, or lightly pinch the area where his lobes meet his face and gently tug them downward. Repeat.
His Feet
“Men love foot massages,” says Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First. What’s more, according to reflexology, the heels are pressure points that are believed to trigger sexual arousal. Our suggestion? After you get his socks off, use massage oil, especially of the scented variety.
His Eyelids
Attention paid to his eyelids is a great way to get him in the lovemaking frame of mind. With his eyes closes, trace your fingertips gently around his eye sockets and over his eyes before laying some light kisses on the area. His closed eyes make it so that you’re in control while he can’t see, changing the power dynamic in a titillating way.
His Prostate
The final frontier for many men when it comes to pleasure, the prostate shouldn’t be overlooked, as it can greatly enhance his enjoyment during foreplay and sex. Prostate massage (with a body-safe and easy-to-clean prostate massager of course) can result in the most intense ever orgasms he’s ever had, and with that sole reason in mind, there’s no reason not to give it a try.
His Forehead
Perhaps not the first erogenous zone that springs to mind, but hey that’s the point. The head and scalp are covered with nerve endings that will amplify the lightest touch, so try softly massaging from the hairline to the forehead. This will activate the release of feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin, resulting in some relaxation and a better mood that will get him in the mood.
The Back of His Knees
It might bemight be ticklish back there, but this area is very valuable when stimulated during foreplay. Due to the smoothness and hairlessness of the skin back there, it’s extra sensitive to touch, so try a light, circular stroke to turn up the heat before or during the main event.
His Ears
According to sex coach and sexuality educator Amy Levine, his ears are “… often a forgotten area that can soothe or excite.” By either focusing some soft smooches or hot breaths on his lobes, you can expect his excitement to grow, or lightly pinch the area where his lobes meet his face and gently tug them downward. Repeat.
His Feet
“Men love foot massages,” says Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First. What’s more, according to reflexology, the heels are pressure points that are believed to trigger sexual arousal. Our suggestion? After you get his socks off, use massage oil, especially of the scented variety.
His Eyelids
Attention paid to his eyelids is a great way to get him in the lovemaking frame of mind. With his eyes closes, trace your fingertips gently around his eye sockets and over his eyes before laying some light kisses on the area. His closed eyes make it so that you’re in control while he can’t see, changing the power dynamic in a titillating way.
His Prostate
The final frontier for many men when it comes to pleasure, the prostate shouldn’t be overlooked, as it can greatly enhance his enjoyment during foreplay and sex. Prostate massage (with a body-safe and easy-to-clean prostate massager of course) can result in the most intense ever orgasms he’s ever had, and with that sole reason in mind, there’s no reason not to give it a try.
Saturday, January 26, 2013
Five Fun Ways to Masturbate
You may think you know how to masturbate, but you have no idea. Every guy’s method for beating the bishop or choking the chicken will differ just a little bit from everyone else’s, naturally. But, all that’s really required is the right kind of friction in just the right spot. Once a man has committed to a masturbation technique of his own, his form pretty much stays the same for his whole life. And yet, it doesn’t have to be that way.
Every guy should know at least five fun ways to masturbate . Sure, the normal five knuckle shuffle is fun and all, but a little variation is good for everybody. There really can be too much of a good thing so it is best to switch things up occasionally to keep things fresh and exciting.
Here are five fun ways to masturbate to make the most out of your alone time.
1. The Stranger. Quite possibly the most famous masturbation technique of all, The Stranger has earned it’s reputation. The one drawback that many see in masturbation is that it is generally a solo activity. It is always better to have an attractive lady friend help you out. As stated earlier, masturbation is tricking your penis into thinking a vagina is around. The Stranger simply takes that trickery one step further. You sit on the hand you plan on using until it is numb. When you lose sensation in that hand feel free to go to town. It feels like somebody else is taking care of you.
2. The Endless Vagina. The act of masturbating is basically simulating a vagina. The Endless Vagina is simulating a vagina that never ends. Fairly self explanatory. The Endless Vagina is achieved by making a fist with one hand and sliding it down over the penis. When the head of the penis emerges slide the other hand down. Rinse and repeat until desired results are achieved.
3. Hot Meat Sandwich. This one is pretty simple. Basically, your stomach and one of your hands will be the bread and you fill this sandwich with your sausage. Rub your hand against your penis for the friction. See, friction equals heat. These names totally make sense. This sandwich definitely beats those egg salad sandwiches they sell in gas stations, just remember to keep some napkins on hand. This is a Hot Meat Sandwich, not a Sloppy Joe.
4. The Lefty. This is really only The Lefty if you are right-handed, if you are left-handed it is The Righty. If you are ambidextrous then instead of five fun ways to masturbate you get four. The idea behind The Lefty is to masturbate using your non-dominant hand. This simply switches things up from the normal routine for a different feel. Your off hand will produce a different pressure, speed and pulling direction. It also helps to keep your dominant hand from developing the aforementioned calluses, so it is basically a win win scenario.
5. Rosy Palms AKA Sandpaper. While the name Sandpaper may cause a little trepidation, this technique is one of the five fun ways to masturbate. The premise is simple, grip the penis with one hand and rub the head of the penis with the palm of the other hand. It’s really only Sandpaper when the hands used are calloused, so be careful how often you have your personal time.
Every guy should know at least five fun ways to masturbate . Sure, the normal five knuckle shuffle is fun and all, but a little variation is good for everybody. There really can be too much of a good thing so it is best to switch things up occasionally to keep things fresh and exciting.
Here are five fun ways to masturbate to make the most out of your alone time.
1. The Stranger. Quite possibly the most famous masturbation technique of all, The Stranger has earned it’s reputation. The one drawback that many see in masturbation is that it is generally a solo activity. It is always better to have an attractive lady friend help you out. As stated earlier, masturbation is tricking your penis into thinking a vagina is around. The Stranger simply takes that trickery one step further. You sit on the hand you plan on using until it is numb. When you lose sensation in that hand feel free to go to town. It feels like somebody else is taking care of you.
2. The Endless Vagina. The act of masturbating is basically simulating a vagina. The Endless Vagina is simulating a vagina that never ends. Fairly self explanatory. The Endless Vagina is achieved by making a fist with one hand and sliding it down over the penis. When the head of the penis emerges slide the other hand down. Rinse and repeat until desired results are achieved.
3. Hot Meat Sandwich. This one is pretty simple. Basically, your stomach and one of your hands will be the bread and you fill this sandwich with your sausage. Rub your hand against your penis for the friction. See, friction equals heat. These names totally make sense. This sandwich definitely beats those egg salad sandwiches they sell in gas stations, just remember to keep some napkins on hand. This is a Hot Meat Sandwich, not a Sloppy Joe.
4. The Lefty. This is really only The Lefty if you are right-handed, if you are left-handed it is The Righty. If you are ambidextrous then instead of five fun ways to masturbate you get four. The idea behind The Lefty is to masturbate using your non-dominant hand. This simply switches things up from the normal routine for a different feel. Your off hand will produce a different pressure, speed and pulling direction. It also helps to keep your dominant hand from developing the aforementioned calluses, so it is basically a win win scenario.
5. Rosy Palms AKA Sandpaper. While the name Sandpaper may cause a little trepidation, this technique is one of the five fun ways to masturbate. The premise is simple, grip the penis with one hand and rub the head of the penis with the palm of the other hand. It’s really only Sandpaper when the hands used are calloused, so be careful how often you have your personal time.
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