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Most people trim their pubic area these days – whether for hygiene purposes or for sex appeal. But if you are a first timer or you fancy a change in the way you style your intimate locks it is a good idea to get some information on the options available before you jump in. Our sexperts at Sexgear.co.nz are here to help... While some women are happy to go right ahead and deal with the

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the difference between an average blowjob and an excellent blowjob?”Straight Single Guy: I have had a handful of extraordinary blowjobs in my lifetime. Generally I say something to any talented giver, pointing out how noteworthy her skills are. One lovely woman asked me to explain why I thought it was so good. I

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The classic legs closedHow it's done: Your partner lies on her back, but keeps her legs together instead of spread.Advantage: This is a good basic position, especially for women who are shy or nervous about oral sex.Secret to success: Try long, gentle strokes along the inside of her thighs, from her knees to her pubic hair. This will help stimulate sensation in other areas and get her juices

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How much has the increasing prevalence of easy access to hardcore pornography changed the real-life sex practices of actual teenagers? The September issue of Details Magazine examines the issue, using several recent studies as a jumping off point for its discussion, which includes actor Seth Rogen (star of the mainstream film comedy Zack and Miri Make a Porno), alt-porn pioneer Joanna Angel (who

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Although men may joke and tease each other about their solo sexual activity, women are typically less forthcoming about their own self-pleasuring. With a very close friend, some may compare notes discretely about the best vibrators or the stress relief going solo can provide.But women's masturbation is not generally a common topic of conversation among girlfriends. Maybe it should be, say sex

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You may have to fight your boyfriend for that Pocket Rocket now that more and more studies are praising sex toys’ gender-neutral benefits. A new study featured in this month’s issue of The Journal of Sexual Medicine reveals that vibrators can greatly improve sexual health. Vibrators have been one method frequently recommended by clinicians treating female patients for sexual dysfunction, but now

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Whether you only have time for a quick feel-good session with yourself, or whether you have all the time in the world, the following list provides a method for every woman to maximize her benefit from a beautiful masturbation experience. Right now, take a little look-see to find out which one(s) fit your personality and schedule.Skin to Skin ContactThe Pattie CakeWith your pointer and middle

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It’s no secret that men often make mistakes in bed. Men’s bedroom blunders are the talk of many a girl’s night cocktail hour, office gossip and one on one girlfriend phone calls. You can’t stop gals from talking about your bedroom mistakes, but you CAN stop making mistakes in the bedroom! Here’s the 5 biggest mistakes that men make in bed – avoid them at all costs!When A Man Isn’t Dominant In

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BB: Did you feel any pressure when you were performing?RJ: There's a lot of pressure to perform when you're the best-known [porn] actor in the world; my biggest fear is that I'll be in a scene and I'll suck, and people will say, "Just look at that flaccid noodle." I'm getting older and it feels more of a strain, but I'm still enjoying doing the scenes. BB: Being in porn, how do you view sex?RJ:

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FIT women have more orgasms, a survey has discovered - and doing regular pelvic exercises can increase your chances of ecstasy. Eight out of ten women improved their sex lives in four weeks by doing the exercises daily - and seven out of ten of their partners said sex was better for them, too. The findings have emerged in an ongoing survey underway in the lead up to National Orgasm Day on July 31

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It's tricky to know if there is ever a right time to have sex with someone for the first time. The question is, should you wait or just go for it? Whether you call it hiding the salami, parking the pink Cadillac, or porking, sometimes you just know it's the right time to have sex. But just what exactly makes it the right time? Laughing together? Having a ring on your finger? Or those raging

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Indulging in wild, filthy thoughts could add a bit of steam into your sex life. If you're new to the whole thing, check out our suggestions on how to up the sizzle factor. The rule about fantasies is that there are no rules. This is the one sexual arena where you can allow yourself complete freedom. Fantasizing is, after all, about exploring your kinkiest thoughts, so don't hold back through fear

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10. Why Do You Do It? Sure, there's the obvious. But there's also an argument for men's biological drive to perpetuate their genes: An 18th-century Russian woman holds the world record for having birthed the most children: 69, which she had over the course of 27 pregnancies that included sixteen pairs of twins, seven sets of triplets, and four sets of quadruplets. But she's outdone by the male

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The Top Ten Masturbation SongsIN honour of this being National Masturbation Month we're bringing you music to masturbate by:Music For Self-Lovers, Volume One (Of One)10. Tori Amos, “Icicle”“And when my hand touches myself/I can finally rest my head/And when they take from his body/I think I’ll take from mine instead/Getting off, getting off while they’re all downstairs”9. Billy Idol, “Dancing

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1. Porn never gets a headache‘My wife doesn’t share my sex drive – once or twice a week is her maximum,’ says Michael, a lawyer from Pittsburgh. ‘I want to get off every day so porn bridges the gaps for me when my wife isn’t in the mood for sex.’2. You don't have to take porn out for dinner‘Most porn is free on the internet these days but even if you do buy DVDs or go pay-per-view, it’s way

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1. Entice your partner with orgasm exploration. Read up on the many types of peaking men and women can have, and let your lover know that you want to explore how both of you can reach new climactic heights.2. Incorporate fantasy throughout the day. Plant seeds in your partner’s head of things you know spark interest. Share a hot thought you had involving an erotic moment you once shared. Describe

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Here are your options:1. Tell him you’ve been faking. Explain that you only lied because you were scared and insecure and you’re telling the truth now because he means so much to you and you feel he deserves the truth. Apologize profusely. Make him feel really special, like he’s the only guy who’s ever earned your trust enough to be told the truth, like he’s the only one you’ve ever met who’s man

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Laws are supposed to protects us, but when the government decides to get in our pants, some crazy stuff goes down! Here are some actual sex laws truly for the record books!1. In Bakersfield, Calif., if you're going to have sex with Satan, you've gotta use a condom. And definitely come up with a safe word!2. Poking a porcupine is illegal in Florida. But apparently that law didn't go far enough.

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Top Male Sex FantasiesIt's safe to say, since guys spend most of their time trying to figure out how to get sex, and then avoiding the phone afterwards, that a lot of their fantasies are about power. In other words, some of their favorite reveries reflect the desire to skip the perennial smile-and-wink, followed by dinner-and-a-movie, and get straight to the action.10. Domination/submission.

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I've been wondering whether I'd choose kissing, cuddling, or sex if I had the luxury of choosing with a particular girl. Before deciding, I figured I'd take a quick look at the pros and cons of each:Kissing Pros:Kissing is usually the first intense thing we do with our significant other, and this is often when the relationship is all fun and new. You put your personality in kissing, so if you're

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Why couples argue about sex so often? He wants sex every day, while she wants it twice a week. He falls asleep right after sex , while she would prefer some caressing after sex .A good sex life is an important part of relationship. So why are there so many conflicts between men and women about it, if they both need sex? The answer to this is the difference between the sexual appetites of women

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in Romboch, Virginia...It's illegal to engage in sexual activity with the lights on.in Bozeman, Montana...All sexual activity is banned between members of the opposite sex in the front yard of a home after sundown if they're nude.in Helena, Montana...A law mandates that a woman can't dance on a table in a saloon or bar unless she has on at least three pounds, two ounces of clothing.in Skullbone,

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1. You're going to have a lot more of it. The recession that hit your pocket will tickle your crotch. Call it Recession Sex. If you're coupled, you're going to spend more time at home and at some point that TV's gotta be turned off. The nesting impulse will increase your resting pulse. That's the good news. The bad? As discretionary income goes down, indiscretions go up. Oops. If you're single,

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She can climax on her own. She can reach the “Big O” with toys. She can even think her way to bliss. Yet she just can’t orgasm with you.If it weren’t for all the e-mails I get on this issue, I’d think it was a joke. But it’s real, and a cruel joke at that. Many women are perfectly orgasmic, only not with their lover. Thankfully, there are several ways to make sure she hits heaven when she’s with

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For many women an orgasm is something they can only dream of, while for others it's something that rarely happens when they're with their partner.If you fall into either of these categories, then don't worry, you're not alone. Research has shown that:1 in 10 women never orgasm at all.4 out of 10 women reach their first orgasm through masturbation.Climaxing with a partner during penetrative sex is

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For those of you who are in a relationship where you’re both card-carrying members of the sex toy club, buying your partner a sex toy is easy – just get her a bigger and better version of the one she already has. But if the only buzzing in your bedroom is your dodgy fluorescent light, the first purchase can be a little trickier.Pillow talk...Yup that’s right. There needs to be a discussion about

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1. The vast majority of porn is made by men, for men, so don't presume that your girlfriend will think it is a great idea. If she puts her foot down, try cajoling her with Porn for Women, by the Cambridge Women's Pornography Co-operative, a picture book featuring good-looking guys doing housework, with captions such as “Well, I can't offer you any solutions, but I am a good listener.”2. If she

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You may not get very many opportunities to get it on for extended periods of time with a lover, but when you do get the chance you don’t want to lose out by not knowing how to keep up your side of the bargain. There are several ways to keep yourself in good form should the occasion arise. Enduring a sex marathon can take a few hours or longer if the situation demands it. It could go all night.

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Equality theory suggests that the most pleasurable sexual relationship between two partners is when they are both enjoying equivalent satisfaction. Biologically then, men and women should be created as sexual equals. Alas, we are not.Let’s start with the stats. The average length of time a woman takes to have an orgasm is 20 minutes. For men, the average time is more like 2-5 minutes. Discrepancy

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As I'm sure you're well aware, there are many good reasons to have sex. In fact, sometimes you don't need any reason at all -- other than, say, loving your partner.However, sometimes a lady finds herself doing all the right things for all the wrong reasons. That's what we're here to cover. So if you find yourself in any of the following situations, please extricate yourself as quickly as possible

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Apparently, the average woman's orgasm lasts for 28 seconds. For a lucky few, it can go on for a massive 107 seconds.We're not sure if we believe this research (who on earth did they interview?) but it could soon be a reality for women everywhere, thanks to a new gel launched later this year.Play O, created by women for women, is made by Durex and promises to increase desire and give longer, more

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FIT women have more orgasms, a survey has discovered - and doing regular pelvic exercises can increase your chances of ecstasy. Eight out of ten women improved their sex lives in four weeks by doing the exercises daily - and seven out of ten of their partners said sex was better for them, too.The findings have emerged in an ongoing survey underway in the lead up to National Orgasm Day on 31 July

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This is how to create some new SEXY pics of you and your spouse for your profile.Have Fun!When you decide to do a photo shoot, make an entire night of it. Send the kids off to the sitter's and set up the shoot in the house or at a fun location where you can be totally relaxed and not hurried. Buy a nice bottle of wine and have some of your favorite music playing in the background. Very rarely

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10) No need to spend $15 to $25 a bag to check luggage at the airport.9) If everyone vacationed at nudist resorts, Airports could go clothing optional solving lost luggage problems.8) Waves don't knock off your swim suit top.7) No laundry to do when you get home from vacation- save the environment.6) Women do not have to go through the humiliation of buying a new bathing suit.5) You won't be

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No matter how strong your bond, life inevitably intervenes now and then and pushes sex to the back burner. But sometimes all you need to get past those phases ‑- and don't worry, they're only phases ‑- is a little something to kick you out of your routine and jumpstart your sexual desire. That's where these innovative sex games come into play. So put down those dishes or turn off the TV; right

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1. MAKING EYE CONTACT. The eyes are the doorways to a connected sex life. Although it may feel a little funny at first, making eye contact during sex tells your partner that all your attention is on him. It builds trust, which ultimately leads to a stronger sexual and emotional bond.2. TOUCHING. Touching each other throughout the day builds longing for each other. Massaging, stroking, and

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Food is love. Food is comfort. What Grandma didn’t tell us and probably didn’t know: Food is also sex. Certain consumables can light up your lovemaking. For the record, I’m not talking about the so-called aphrodisiacs that resemble human genitalia, such as oysters and figs. The way a food looks might be visually arousing or psychologically compelling — bonbons and Champagne no doubt conjure up

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In the evening, he wants to make love. In the morning, he wants to get it on. Sometimes, he just wants a little sumthin' sumthin'. Sex by any other name is still sex, but all sex is not created equal. I blame the names sex is given. Take "humping" for example. So I've come up with a few of my own.Renaming sex can inspire the most overwhelmed of adults to want it more, and heeeey, get it better!

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1. Motherhood should not make you celibate Motherhood should not make you celibate. Instead, you need to see yourself as a hot mama, switching on your Marilyn Monroe persona the second you get your lover alone. For your sake, for your family’s sake, you need to temporarily forget that you’re known as an asexual “mommy” most of the day. You need to nurture your sex life with as much zest as you

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1. Foreplay doesn't start in the sack.The timer for enticing does not start once you hit the sheets. Your pre-game show is best approached as an all day affair. Women love to be wooed. Sex is a head game — in more ways than one - and women want to know you can’t get them out of your mind. They love knowing that they're desired.2. Don't head south straight away.Diving in for the genitals too soon

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In the beginning of a new relationship, most couples experience very passionate sex. Just the thought of your lover evokes a wonderful desire to enjoy them.This is the result of chemistry and novelty. It's always exciting to explore unknown territory but over time the chemistry and novelty wears off and passion diminishes.Of course, passion inevitably decreases over time. When lovers settle into

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Seminars on how to use sex toys should be offered to adults throughout the country. But some officials at the University of Wisconsin didn't think so and canceled and upcoming Sex Toys 101 event being held at their Law School. Fortunately, some law students argued the event was canceled without "justification or consultation." The good news is that the University has reversed their decision and

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There are so many myths surrounding the use of sex toys that Bongo Bill's Adult Playground, an online provider of erotic toys, has decided to set the record straight and separate fact from fiction, taking the shame out of what is a very common-place and deliciously fun activity.MYTH 1: Sex toys are for perverts, weirdoes or sluts. They may well be, but on the whole the vast majority of those

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